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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Gáire on May 18, 2009, 10:38:22 PM

Title: A little problem...
Post by: Gáire on May 18, 2009, 10:38:22 PM
Now, it's the typical fallen-in-love routine... Well, sort of.

This person is my best friend. I can go to that person whenever I have problem. They are my life. I would give anything to help them in a heartbeat...

Except, well, she's a girl. And I've never liked a girl before.... But lately the feeling just gets stronger and stronger, and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'm bisexual. I've always been attracted to girls too, but never thought about it until I started liking this girl... And I'm just confused, and scared, and worried.

I needed to tell someone. I'm sorry.
Title: Re: A little problem...
Post by: Goblin Cat 😸 on May 23, 2009, 04:38:36 PM
There's no need to apologize, really. The feeling gets stronger and stronger, but are you sure of what you're feeling? Are you sure you're feeling the right love? Really what you need to ask yourself is can you see yourself as this person's mate? Could you see yourself with this person in your arms or sharing a kiss? Doing more in the future? I know this may sound a little cliche, but those questions are important to be asking. Heck, there's a guy I love, but I couldn't see this person as my mate. He's a good friend, but I tend to view his relationship toward me as a brotherly one. It's like the fact that I could never see myself with a girl as a mate.. Really in order to know what's going on you need to have some self-analysis. Hope I helped some..
Title: Re: A little problem...
Post by: Gáire on May 24, 2009, 03:35:58 AM
There's no need to apologize, really. The feeling gets stronger and stronger, but are you sure of what you're feeling? Are you sure you're feeling the right love? Really what you need to ask yourself is can you see yourself as this person's mate? Could you see yourself with this person in your arms or sharing a kiss? Doing more in the future? I know this may sound a little cliche, but those questions are important to be asking. Heck, there's a guy I love, but I couldn't see this person as my mate. He's a good friend, but I tend to view his relationship toward me as a brotherly one. It's like the fact that I could never see myself with a girl as a mate.. Really in order to know what's going on you need to have some self-analysis. Hope I helped some..

No, no, it did help. :] It's kind of a mix, really.

I couldn't see myself married (but I never see myself married to anyone) to her in the future, but I do imagine kissing her or holding her hand in public. I always have this need to protect her (as corny as that sounds) and whatever makes her happy, I'm willing to do.

 :yeah-yeah: It's a cross-breed of stuff. NDFHklkjsdf.