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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Dr. Strange on March 14, 2009, 10:09:06 PM
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THose people!
So, I'm sitting in my room, doing nothing wrong, and my annoying little brother comes bursting in and steals my stuffed animals. (His life has just shortened ten years.) I ran after him, thudding down the hall, beat him up and got my teddy bear back. Afterward, he runs downstairs and tattles to mama then I get in trouble. I sat there and looked at my mama like she was on crack. You've got to be KIDDING ME!! Every time something happens that's his fault, I get in trouble...
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the same happens to me, i bought some jos louis (little chocolate cakes) put them in the cupboard and the next day someone stole 4 of them, i yelled at my sister and i got in trouble, and she got dessert.
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.... that's just wrong.
Besides, he gets whatever he asks for. Their response to something I ask; "Go get a job Samantha." or, my personal favorite; "Maybe for your birthday/Christmas/next year."
What am I? Chopped liver? Jeez, they act like he's the angel and I'm a little demon-child....
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Jeez, they act like he's the angel and I'm a little demon-child....
I know what that is...
My little brother annoys me beyond comprehension. And when he starts blabbing something I don't even understand and no one's listening, I tell him to shut up and my mom starts "Can't the kid talk??"
I mean... SHE WASN'T EVEN LISTENING!
God.. I feel better now xD
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yep happens all the time with me my sister screams at anyone in a 2 meter radius of her so she can get them in trouble, then i tell her to shut up and i get in trouble WTF?
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I can relate to you all.. My sister is 13 and tries to act hard.. she has a "boyfriend".. hmm.. and rings him up saying stuff like "you better not be sleeping with anyone" .. its just like act your age?! she'll talk C-R-A-P to me.. then if i say one thing back, i get told off. My parents let her get away with whatever she wants and then if i do the same or ask her what shes doing i get the blame. She also tries to get me into trouble a lot and my parents are that stupid that they fall for it.. example.. were sitting watching tv, im on my PSP, x factor or something was on and we were both quiet then i commented "that guys terrible lol" and she went "CHRIS STFU".. my dad comes downstairs and starts shouting in my face.. when I shout back saying "I DIDNT DO ANYTHING!" i get punched and have my PSP thrown at the wall.. then he picks me up and starts squaring up to me asking if I wanted a fight. My sister at this point going "WHATS THE POINT" with me thinking "you started it so what you complaining about".. i talked to some friends and stayed the night at someones then travelled to my Grandmas 100 miles away on the train..
*sighs* life sucks
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im sry fur... :'( i hope things arent always like tht between u and ur dad, hope u move to US.... i wont yell at u hehehe
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Thanks :( and hehe thanks
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Yea Fur! :) ~zombie voice~...Cooommmeeee toooo UUUUSSSSS......pwease?
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....Oh...and yea...So I'm living with my mom,...a 9 year old OMEN sister.....and a blahblahblah Stepdad.......who's the father of the little demon child.......She get's EEEEVVVVEEEERRRRYYYY thing she wants....I get a regular toothbrush, she gets some $50 Electric toothbrush.....I get nothing, she gets some new shoes...I get nothing AGAIN, she gets 100 bucks...The little thing even has a bigger ROOM THAN I and she got her first phone at 8....I had to wait till I was 14......She's the spark that gets flames between my step-dad and my mom going.....like a frikin forest fire.....Then someone makes her feel bad and it's INSTANTLY their fault........XD even my grandma hates my step-dad...he walked past her and she had a HUUUGE knife, looked at me, and smiled, then acted like she was stabbing her!..........Oh, and since my mom doesn't have a job yet, he has to pay for mostly everything....and me and my mom have to be his slaves, cleaning up after him, listening to him talk on the phone to his friends about how great his PERFECT farm is......i mean...HE's practically PERFECT.........UGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!......and the funny thing is...our neighbors that live infront of us have a restraining order on him...and me and the neighbors are STILL close friends....He's lost about 4-5 'friends'.......so WHOSE the stupid one here?
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ouch... This si why I hate leaving for a while... I miss all the good stuff. ;3 I'm sorry your siblings are so evil. My little brother has chilled out. I told him I'd sic his girlfriend on him if he didn't leave me alone. ;) Yes, I am that sneaky. Besides, she's a good friend of mine and I'm the reason they're together so he's lucky I solve all their problems. Little butt.
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Hmmm... If Flyer moves to the US, I'll half-consider staying. He's a compelling person... Still, I love the UK... Oh I dunno, that's a few years ahead.
But, anyway, yeah. I have had my share of stupidity from my little sister. I can't even recall anything she's done to me, for she has done an ungodly amount to try and ruin my life. It worked, too, about four years ago, when she was seven and I was nine... Then I learned the wonders of a quick tongue and I was able to convince my parents that she was just a liar. I maintain a silver stream of speech whenever she tries anything with me, and I often convince HER to do change her own mind.
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I wish I had it like YOU....I cant do that...I'll just get shot down...
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Eh? Shot down? What is with all of these angry parents? They had better hope that I don't catch hold of them mistreating MY friends, otherwise I'll show them the Wolf part of me. I dare-say, if anyone ever harms a Furry pack-mate, I will talk their minds and souls down to a breaking point, and then shatter them with a curse and an iron heel.
Shattered... Flyer... Gizor... Jojo... ...Growlf!; I can't comprehend you excellent people having anyone hate you at all, less so your own family.
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hehheehe my sisters on camp now no one is left to annoy me MUHAHAHAHAAHAHA!!!!!!!.
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I get dinner duty for the next two weeks for 'back-talking'. As if. And I have to "make what I tell you to, how I tell you to, and when I tell you too." per what my mother says. All because I tried to defend myself and get a little more time to finish my homework earlier today.
Psh. I'm not listening to them. They've gotten on my nerves for the last time, and I've had it. When I make dinner tomorrow night, we're having what I make or they starve.
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And another thing she pulled on me, "You're not allowed to date until Alex comes back." WTF?!
I'm not a baby, first off. Secondly, my love-life doesn't need to be posted all over the house or talked about to every freaking family member we have. And third, I'm not going to effin' get pregnant the first time I go out on a date, or any other time. What is wrong with going to hang out with a bunch of guys my age and having fun with them?
It's not as though I'm going to jump at the first offer of sex I get. I've turned down several because I'M NOT A *******!
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Well said and well acted. Arrogant and bullheaded, but that's great fun I say! Especially when the people you are acting upon are arrogant and bullheaded as well. And never let anyone decide your social or love life; that's a given. You're awesome Shattered.
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~sighs and sits down~
I'm going to go paint for awhile. I'm not talkin' till I get straightened out. And that might be a long time.
~gets offended~
yet again I am insulted by their blatant disregard to my 'fragile' stage in life right now.
You're awesome Shattered.
I most certainly am not!
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First step is denial. Good. Now, get angry! :-*
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shut up.
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Awesome! Oh... You're super-serious ain't you? Not moving onto bargaining? I'll leave now. *sniffle*
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~looks defeated~
alright, I'm semi-awesome, okay?
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Okay...
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As far as words go. I still think you're magnificent!
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>_>" .........
You're difficult, you know that?
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Would I be an optimist if I gave up on things? :-*
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no, you'd be me. So don't.
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Hee hee. Fair enough.
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Good, don't forget now. :3
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You know what's weird?
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Perchance. What?
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To King of the Shattered.
I know what you mean with parents thinking your gonna sleep with every guy you hang out with. I'm 19, have been in a few sexual relationships, have way more guy friends than I do girl friends of which I havent slept with any of them except maybe the ones I dated. My mom wont allow me to stay over a female friends house because a guy (who isnt her boyfriend) happens to live at the same apartment. Im not allowed to stay at any guys house either because she automatically thinks Im going to sleep with him even though IM NOT LIKE THAT! I have several guys who would just love to sleep with me, but I want nothing to do with it. I really wonder if my mom thinks Im a slut even though Ive given no indication to be one.
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My problem is... she was in a difficult situation when she was around my age and she pretty much did some things that resulted in my older brother. Me, being her daughter (by a cruel twist of fate), makes her automatically assume I will sleep with the next available guy, just because it got almost there ONCE.
You would think, with the way she talks to me, I had slept with all the guys at my high school and was working on DC and Chapel Hill...
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My mom didnt do that but still expects me to do it cause shes stuck in all the hype about unmarried teens getting pregnant and the men leaving them and their lives sucking after the fact, etc, etc, etc. My mom is also still nervous about me getting "kidnapped" or raped. Mothers are overprotective of their daughters. Just because her fate resulted in a certain situation doesnt mean yours will. And just because you become intimate with someone doesnt automatically mean a baby will be produced from it as long as protection is used. When I was 16/17 I had a curfew of 6-7pm even if I was the next street over at a friends house.
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yea.... Bed at 7:30 weekdays, 8:30 on weekends... It's a royal pain to have to plan everything two weeks ahead of time as well... Now I remember why I don't bother having friends..
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Jeez, I remember things like that only not that bad. My bedtime was 9, but I think that was mostly cause of the job I worked. How old are you if you dont mind me asking?
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Ahh...family members....Now that I reflect upon it I remember all the times I gotten mad over my siblings. My mother and her boyfriend buy my little brother anything he wants because he is a budding fisherman while I ask for some simple hiking boots and I get chewed out for not doing something productive. Or when I am working around the house and I take a break I get yelled at for being lazy while my little brother the fat slob lays on the couch watching TV eating my food... Funny thing is that he tries to act tough and tries to start fights with me but he knows that I can easily beat him to the ground but he will just tattle.
Thats why I choose to ignore people half the time and one of the main reasons I am so anti-social
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Yea, family has a way of disappointing you... I'm fifteen, by the way. I can't way until May 9th though...!~
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That puts things into better perspective for me knowing your age and what generally you can or cant do.... ya 15 sucked for me too, similar things for me as well... glad to be older... I still dont have as much freedom as Id like to since I do live with my parents still.... economy is blah right now and apartments are so expensive where I live. Plus I still go to school.
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The joys of being an only child. :D
I've really got nearly no restrictions. If I wanted to drink or smoke... I'd be allowed to. I don't though. As long as it isn't in the way of the law (even though my parents do think of them as useless in some areas, step-dad got beaten up with no police assisting and he got helped by a bystander after being kicked in, and it was the same when I got kicked in except the person didn't get in trouble despite having 3 offenses that were a lot less hurtful than an attack), I'd be allowed to do it outside of very few things.
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Being 17 and all puts alot of stress on me about next year, got to find a college, sscholarships and grants, living and job and transportation. All my family is doing right now is just adding on stress and eventually it will be the straw that broke the camel's back.
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Yes... the lovely stress factor. All I can really do is listen to music when I'm tricked, turn it up so you can't hear me, and scream curses at anything and anyone that comes to mind. Afterward, I talk to y'all. Because I love you guys. :) And it ticks my mom off when I hide up in my room and refuse to see her. Funnier than anything else I can do to them... Except the ex-lax in Papa's milk... ~grins~
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Older siblings, let me say something for the younger ones, since I'm a younger sibling. Every time I came home, my big brother was in a bunch of trouble with either his friends, my parents, or the police. I never did anything bad, and I always did what I was told. My brother would always get me to do his chores, regardless of how horrible they were, or how much my parents yelled at him to do them himself. On weekends, my brother would come home drunk or high or something else, and he would come into my room at 3 in the morning and wake me up by either jumping on my bed or smacking me around. As a younger sibling, I'm always compared to my brother. My parents look at him and see an awesome person, but I look at him and see him for what he really is: A narcissistic, headstrong, manipulative, jerk. He may have had more than one job at a time and maintained a gpa of of 2.2 (I got yelled at if my gpa dropped below a 3.5), and he may have been a volunteer fireman (I STILL volunteer at the hospital a few towns over, but my parents yell at me for inconveniencing THEM by having them drive me...), but he also got banned from volunteering at the fire house because he showed up to a fire call drunk, cut class every day to smoke, and was kicked out of college for selling drugs. Now, tell me. Who do you think should be compared to who? Because I don't think that it's fair that my brother dodges every bullet that comes his way and lets it hit me, and that I have to work 4 times as hard to get only HALF of what he gets.
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Im another one who has a younger brother. I may be seen as the good one by my mum and dad, but when they're not exactly around, my brother tries to put me down, make me feel small and upset me. He usually likes to pick on the fact that im a huge tails fan :'( . If i wanted to, i'd hit him, but if i did, he'd do what most of you said your brother/sister would do, tattle on me, or make a loud enough noise so that it seems worse than it is. So i get yelled at more than him. Because of that, it seems he wants to get me blamed when it could have also been his fault. I ignore him as much as i can, but sometimes it's too much for me :'( . I'll be glad when i move out, to get away from him
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Eh, I've gotten over everything, because. regardless of how how it may be to accept it, I can't change the way they treat me or how they see me. If my family sees me as a slob and a lazy sac of dirt, so be it. There is nothing I will do to change their minds. Nor do I care what they think of me anymore. I'm tired of trying to measure up to someone else and trying to make myself feel better by finding faults in others. That is NOT who I am and I am NOT going to act this way any longer.
Besides, if I have to change myself to make you happy, you're not worth my time. ^P^
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The older sibling tends to push the younger sibling around, and the younger sibling is normally backed by the parents. I get the best of both worlds. My parents love to tease my little brother and say that they love me more. :-[
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ha ha. I am now the oldest one in the house and my parents are starting to drop on the pressure. But I have to pressure myself to do things they don't ask me to do to make a good example for the younger ones who play in my house to look up to. You know the saying, 'chip on your shoulder'? That's me.
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There are so many things, I mean I could probably write a 10 page letter of all the things that my parents have done to me which have caused me to suppress my anger, frustration, sadness, hatred, and every other emotion I could possibly attain. The only thing I can feel when I'm around them is an emotionless hate.
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you know what helps, honestly? Writing/painting. Don't think about it, just let it roll.
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Yeah, I know what you mean. A few days ago my little brother is looking for the DS and he'd had it the night before. I wake up to my mom yelling, 'Well, where's the DS?' And then I hear my brother say, 'Oh, sissy is hiding it!' The little jerk!! Needless to say, my mom barges in and glares at me and says, 'Well, where's the DS? I know you hid it!' I tell her 'I didn't have it last...' and as she goes to say 'Oh, yeah right' my brother opens the cabinet in the my mom's bedside stand and shouts 'Oh, never mind, I found it!' My mom stands up and goes 'Oh, that's right...He put it there last night.' Then she appologizes and walks away, leaving me like O.o*** How's that for unfair?
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Sorry. Apparently I'm pretty fortunate with my little brother. He's pretty irritating, but not evil like yours seems to be. Maybe mine just realizes that if he wakes me up any earlier the 11:00 heads will roll. I REALLY like my sleep.
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I second that on sleep...
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Sleep is good...
On-topic; I don't get why people ask you out if they're just going to ignore you? Why bother?...
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On topic with Broken, I feel like Mr. Brightside.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnwLf88t_Wc
Watch the music video and you'll understand where I'm coming from.
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My little brother (9 and a half) can be pretty awful. We get into physical "fights" which are kinda funny since I can pick him up over my head...but mom makes me put him down... (-_-)
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yeah it always seems that the older siblings have it the hardest. I am the younger sibling than my sister but my mom trys to even out the treatment of both of us. This one friend of mine down the street has it the worst though. He is only 3 years older than his sister and he has to do most of the chores and is treated alot worse than his sister which I think is very very wrong indeed.
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OMG man, my brother doesn't lift a FINGER in this house. It's quite upsetting, though the level of rage cannot be displayed here in this forum.
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Oh MAN do I know that feeling. When I tell my brother to help out and do the dishes, the first thing he does is give me the 'WTF did you just say?'/Shocked look and then jumps up and starts with the 'If you's' and 'Well YOU...' It drives me up the wall!
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Yeah, what makes it worse is when mom ALWAYS takes their side.
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I can completely understand what you mean...but it makes it worth it sometimes when you have your mom on YOUR side for once. Then you just grin like a cat with all the cream.
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I think that happened to me ONCE back in September of 2006. I remember it vividly since it was the ONLY time it happened. My mom and I were painting and my brother was sitting doing nothing when he tried getting me in trouble for something stupid that I didn't even do (and mom knew it) so he had to take over. HAHAHAHAHA!!!! >:D
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Well, I can understand the whole, blame you for something that didn't happen thing. I can't tell you how many times I've had my brother shout ' Cristina, it's your fault!' when I'm either not home or in another room entirely.
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Yes, I work now though, so my little runt is getting his payback. :P When I'm out of the house, there's no one to blame so he can't give excuses. >;p
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I put the phone on the top shelf when mom's not home so he can't tell on me for something rediculous. :P
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lol nice
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Well.. How many times haven't this happened me :/
All your stories reminds me of similar situations where i get the blame for everything even tho i did nothing...
Tho it doesn't happen too often nowdays, but theres a similar things that makes me really angry: My brother can't keep any secrets i tell him...example: Me and my freind talks about something secret on the phone, my brother hears something of it and asks what i mean with that, i say no, then mom/dad goes something like..you know.. "Can't you tell him Timmy? Bla bla bla" it's so annoying sometimes... :(
Another thing is when he asks me for help on some boring videogame... Then if i say no, my parents just nags me... -.-
But i think the worst is when he always has to spoil it everytime i try to suprise someone...example: me and my family is in shopping for new clothes or somthing, i see my freind while walking between the stores, then my brother sees me while trying to sneak up behind my freind and suprise him, i point at him to be quiet.. then.. the second before i'm behind my freind, he does something stupid and spoils everything :'(
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lol nice
lol thanks XD
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What happens when you steal a wolf's teddy? You get hunted down >:3
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When you steal a wolf's blue madden psp slim with a 16GB pro duo memory stick and 2200mah battery, then it gets very very angry where sisters often have a tendency to do this without telling anyone and then pretend to not know what they did with it >:(
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When you steal a wolf's last strawberry milkshake, you usually end up on the floor with said milkshake in your face. Then that wolf has to clean up the mess and bribe the theif not to tell the Alpha's...
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well.... this caolf is tired of little pups messing everything up. I finally got a job, more chores that I thoguh possible to be given, and a worse headache now that the 'evil week has begun.