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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Kaya on November 12, 2011, 12:54:25 AM

Title: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: Kaya on November 12, 2011, 12:54:25 AM
well i am in a huge dilemma. My mother wont let me go over to my bets friends house to help her out/ be there for her because,one of her [my friends] family members died. My mom won't let me go because i asked if i could go over eairler in the day and now she thinks i am making it up and i am not!! :( I want to be there for her but my mother is getting in the way. I really need help on this.... ...
Title: Re: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: Ottersmash on November 12, 2011, 12:58:32 AM
Have your friend or her parents talk to your parents briefly to verify?
Title: Re: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: Kaya on November 12, 2011, 01:06:17 AM
my mom is refusing to talk to her parents.. she thinks [my mom] that  my friend and i made this up and doesn't want to talk to her mother.. -smacks face onto table and cries in frustration..- I have practically tried everything.... i cleaned the dining room, the Tv room, the kitchen, and did the dishes and she still wont let me go... i think i should just walk the 8miles to her house... but if i do that shes going to bann me from seeing her for like a year and that would kill me.... :( :'(
Title: Re: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: on November 12, 2011, 01:24:58 AM
my mother is the same pretty much. basically I had to learn to make decisions for myself :P you can't always look up to a parental figure for instruction, because more often than not they make the wrong choices.
which is not to say you should disobey your parents, that's just my two cents on the matter
Title: Re: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: ArcticSkyWolf on November 12, 2011, 02:10:04 AM
Tell your friends parents to call your mom and talk about what has happened and recommend you to come over to help. Try that. As in your mom gets the phone call as the caller wants your mom.
Title: Re: please help.... need serious advice
Post by: Kaya on November 12, 2011, 02:29:58 AM
thanks guys...