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Title: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 15, 2011, 12:19:47 AM
YO YO YO

wat up?

Nah I'm just playing. Well I had this idea, dunno if it'll take off but it seemed nice enough. SO what we do is we sit here and give each other a self-esteem boost to help them out, either it be a nice story, an anecdote of your own or even a simple compliment. Just to make that fur feel better.

Anyone can be a Booster or a person that needs boostin' it depends on YOU! It can be a general self-esteem boost or directed towards a cedrtain aspect

for example;

Sad fur: Guys, I'm feeling kinda down, help me out please?

Booster: Right you are winner, there's no need to feel down (INSERT GENDER HERE), you've got all you need right here. you've got your (INSERT QUALITIES ABOUT THE PERSON HERE) and your friends. Dude you can do anything, because you are just amazing, simply awesome and don't let anybody tell you otherwise, nobody is perfect, but you're damn well near

Sad fur who is not sad anyore : Gee thanks (INSERT NAME OF BOOSTER HERE)!!! You really helped me out :)


Sooo, what do you think? any takers?
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 15, 2011, 12:38:45 AM
Sounds like a good idea, any time I feel sad I'll swing by here.
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 15, 2011, 12:47:09 AM
Yeah, just hope it stays alive until then :P
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 15, 2011, 01:42:02 AM
Yay! my idea is loved! now we wait for somebody to want cheering :)
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Post by: on March 17, 2011, 11:06:39 PM
alrighty then, feelin' down, help? :D
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Post by: Ares the Ram on March 17, 2011, 11:07:50 PM
Youre awesome. anyone who says otherwise is stupid.
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Post by: Alexei on March 17, 2011, 11:10:58 PM
Drake is a friendly guy who's a pleasure to talk too, he's a talented writer and was the very first person to welcome me to the site.

He left a great impression.
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Post by: on March 17, 2011, 11:12:39 PM
aww thanks you guys ^_^ that really cheers me up. my little brother spent all day talking crap about me to my friends
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Post by: Alexei on March 17, 2011, 11:17:22 PM
This is what you should do!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cd7JX1sZnmk&feature=related
Not really, I'm kidding.
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Post by: Ares the Ram on March 17, 2011, 11:20:51 PM
that kid was asking for it.
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Post by: Tim Siguire on March 18, 2011, 01:03:04 AM
oh my god, that was funny
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 18, 2011, 02:36:22 PM
Ah casey, that kid is a legend, wish I had the guts to do that when I was younger :)

and good job guys on cheering Drake up :) You're awesome
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Post by: Puncia on March 18, 2011, 04:23:58 PM
Drake, your brother knows nothing about your friends and you are a smart person, picking them well. Don't listen to him because he's just looking for a way to anger you. :3
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 21, 2011, 09:10:21 PM
Bipolar's hitting me hard right now.  :(
Little help, guys?
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Post by: Tim Siguire on March 21, 2011, 09:12:36 PM
ummm, what kind of bipolar do you have
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Post by: Alexei on March 21, 2011, 09:46:36 PM
Bipolar II, why do you ask?
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: on March 21, 2011, 09:52:57 PM
alexei! you are so pawsome! don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise :3
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Post by: Tim Siguire on March 21, 2011, 09:58:20 PM
well, i dont understand bipolar and many people say its if you have two different personalities. other have bipolar but theyre not like that.
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Post by: Alexei on March 21, 2011, 10:16:43 PM
alexei! you are so pawsome! don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise :3
Thanks Drake, that pun made me chuckle. ^_^

well, i dont understand bipolar and many people say its if you have two different personalities. other have bipolar but theyre not like that.
You're probably confusing it with DID (Dissociative identity disorder) that is when somebody actually has two seperate identities that they slip between, Bipolar simply means  that I have major mood swings fairly often. There isn't a huge difference in the types of bipolar though, they all tend to center around mood swngs.
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 21, 2011, 11:35:14 PM
Alexei you rock. I don't really have a massive amount of stuff to say, but you're an awesome person.
Also, guys.
Little help here.. I'm having focus-trouble lately. Can't focus on anything for more than like 3 minutes without freaking out :'(
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 22, 2011, 01:01:07 AM
I know what's like to have bipolar disorder, I have it as well. You are one of the nicest people I've ever met, you brighten my day everytime I talk to you, and if you ever need to talk to anyone, just PM me ^_^
Thank you so much Rob, that really means a lot to me. :)

Alexei you rock. I don't really have a massive amount of stuff to say, but you're an awesome person.
Also, guys.
Little help here.. I'm having focus-trouble lately. Can't focus on anything for more than like 3 minutes without freaking out :'(
Thanks for cheering me up.  :)
Just take your time and calm down a bit, everybody goes through little phases like that, it should pass soon, buddy. :3
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: ___ on March 22, 2011, 01:47:30 AM
Ack.
Feeling like I'm going nowhere fast in life.
Like I'm wading through molasses. Help?
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Post by: ___ on March 22, 2011, 02:20:47 AM
Thanks Rob. :)
Guess I gotta take i day by day. :)
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Post by: Blaiiine on March 22, 2011, 02:49:47 AM
I'm tired of living here with these bullies and it's depressing me, any help?
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: ___ on March 22, 2011, 03:01:13 AM
Dem idiots ain't know nuthin 'bout you!
They ain't got 'nuthin on you either! That's why dey hatin!

Hope that help Cyil. :)
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: on March 22, 2011, 11:05:21 PM
I'm tired of living here with these bullies and it's depressing me, any help?
aww cyril but you're the greatest D:
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 23, 2011, 12:55:41 AM
Bullies come and go, they'll find a new person to pick on soon enough, just got to wait it out, buddy. :3
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Post by: Blaiiine on March 23, 2011, 02:25:39 AM
thanks guys, i really needed the support. :3
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: ___ on March 23, 2011, 03:04:26 AM
Yup, anytime dude. :D
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 25, 2011, 10:10:49 PM
I could use a boost... I'm going through a hard time in my life right now, for obvious reasons, and I might not be able to walk painlessly again...
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 26, 2011, 01:05:52 AM
You're a great guy Jayme, And I've liked you as soon as you joined the forums, A pleasure to chat with and overall a very awesome friend!
The doctors told me the same thing, I never gave up and it all worked out in the end, you just gotta have hope, buddy.
Hang in there and always remember that each and every person on the site is behind you 100%!  :)
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 26, 2011, 01:14:02 AM
Thank you guys, I needed that.
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Post by: on March 26, 2011, 02:44:13 AM
mustard you are teh awesome, and you can conquer any injury!!!
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 26, 2011, 02:48:05 AM
I might actually beat this... Thank you guys...
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 27, 2011, 12:36:19 AM
Of course you can beat it mate. You're made of stronger stuff :3
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 27, 2011, 12:43:01 AM
The surgery got off without a problem, but they did use a lot of metal. Thank you all for your support!
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Post by: on March 27, 2011, 04:05:39 AM
dude rob, i know for a fact that i would kill to be dated by an officer of the law, it's such a sexy aspect for people. you just gotta find that right person :D
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 27, 2011, 04:07:08 AM
And you're one of the most interesting people I know, so don't tell yourself that you're boring!
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 27, 2011, 04:45:42 AM
Exactly, plus you are such a nice guy. You always try to help others and that's amazing, you're my idol. Theres billions of women in the world mate, try not to get hung up on a few. Everybody likes different things, that's why there is so much variety. You've just got to look to find the right woman for you

And it's definitely not you mate, it's them. They dont know what they're passing up, it's gonna be them who are feeling lonely at the end of it all, not you. I'm positive a nice guy like yourself, who is so selfless and has such an awesome job will find someone soon. I just cant see what isn't to like about you, I really cant.
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 27, 2011, 04:53:06 AM
Yeah, He would kill...
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 27, 2011, 04:58:00 AM
Yeah, it made me lol ;P
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 27, 2011, 10:58:20 AM
Rob you need a woman like the one in my mom's romance books
you're a strong and smart officer of law in the witness protection program! And you'll be assigned a beautoiful woman, who is kind and sweet and overall charming, but you'll have to try not to feel love for her because you have to protect her. Then you'll save her fro}n Assassin and she'll be so greatful, and you'll hold her in you arms, look right into her eyes and tell her you love her :*
*faints from the fairy tale romance of it all*
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 27, 2011, 11:08:51 AM
GO BACK TO WITNESS PROTECION AND MEET HER :'(
cause....cause it's more beautiful that way :'(
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on March 27, 2011, 11:09:57 AM
Or maybe a co-worker... That's how I met Stanley...
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 27, 2011, 11:13:36 AM
*drags rob to my room*
i've been working on something!
*turns on computer* now we just need lightning to strike, and hopefully the girl from weird science will fall into your arms!
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 27, 2011, 11:17:34 AM
Well i have this girl in my class. She's as tough as a U.S marshall :D
though that would make you a pedophile @.@
but she's a great girl nonetheless
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Alexei on March 27, 2011, 02:05:44 PM
Sigh... maybe its the bi-polar acting up, but I'm really feeling un-dateable right about now, I've been out on a few dates, but it seems like I'm not interesting enough, or something about me sets them off... I really don't know, I'd even settle for an online relationship right now. I'm just feelin sad :'(
Anyone who turns you down must have a piece of their brain missing, Rob.
The part that's able to identify awesome people!

The right person will come when you least expect it, I'm sure someone as great as you will find someone in no time. :3
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Post by: SplitPersonality on March 27, 2011, 03:14:07 PM
I feel kinda lonely and I can't find my anti-depressant pills so I dunno what to do and I'm starting to go into panic mode. I just feel like crap alot of the time becuase none of my friends ever seem unless they have to and I just...I dunno how to connect anymore becuase I have so many 'friends' but they are so different that I have to run around to find them all to say hi
Title: Re: Self-esteem boostin' machine!
Post by: Kodachi Devil on March 27, 2011, 04:54:07 PM
Well i don't really know you too well, but i think you're a nice guy :)
i also think you should try to find the anti-depressent pills, or go to your doctor and get new ones?
And if you want, i will be your friend :)
i mean we already have being furry in common ^_^
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 27, 2011, 06:31:21 PM
Split, you find these sort of things happen, especially around the age that you are, you find that you are outgrowing your friends and that you can't relate to them anymore. I find it's best to have one or two close friends that you can connect with, so you don't feel so isolated within yourself. I'm sure you're a nice enough guy and can make good friends easily, just remember quality =/= quantity.

hope that helped
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Post by: SplitPersonality on March 28, 2011, 12:54:49 AM
It has kinda helped, I know i have some people to count on now.
Now I just had my heart broken by a boy......damn it, not a good day today
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Post by: Puncia on March 29, 2011, 04:39:06 PM
That is quite right actually. I've found that acceptance and calm logical thinking helps a lot in situations such as these.

You are still you, only with a bit more experience, and whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. *high paws*
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Post by: SplitPersonality on March 29, 2011, 07:23:42 PM
*hugs* S'anks you guys!
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Post by: Tim Siguire on March 29, 2011, 08:01:48 PM
ive been away from the forums for too long, 8(
(wheres operation laysing?)
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 29, 2011, 08:03:35 PM
I haven't heard of it. But it must've peen pretty awesome for you to mention it.

and I know, I missed you alot man, we all did, where've you been? So happy that you're back though :3
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Post by: on March 29, 2011, 08:04:16 PM
feelin' like I'll never get into the college of my dreams, I'm not good enough D:
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Post by: Tim Siguire on March 29, 2011, 08:06:24 PM
i used to think the same way bro. but you WILL make it. eventually. and when you do make it i'll be there to cheer you through the year.
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Post by: Alexei on March 29, 2011, 08:07:41 PM
Drake can do it! All you have to do is give 100% and I'm sure you'll make it!

And at the end of the day, as long as you tried your best isn't that all that matters?
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Post by: Egan on April 01, 2011, 12:41:50 AM
Drake, if you would get into any collage, it would be steven hawking's teachers academy!
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Post by: on April 01, 2011, 05:14:15 AM
naw I don't think so foxy, I'm going for an English major :3
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Post by: SplitPersonality on April 01, 2011, 09:00:31 PM
Then you'll get into the  best english  collage!
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Post by: Tim Siguire on April 01, 2011, 10:12:34 PM
i cant play on PSN anymore!!!! HELP ME OUT!!! DD:
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Post by: Egan on April 01, 2011, 11:00:32 PM
Im kind of sad about being dumped by amber... Im much better than before because of Lonelykat232...
Thanks for the Support...
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Post by: Egan on April 01, 2011, 11:06:00 PM
Play station network.
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Post by: on April 02, 2011, 01:05:56 AM
awww I'm sorry foxy D: there's always more fish (ahem! i mean furries) in the sea
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on April 02, 2011, 02:23:40 PM
Foxy, you can't dwell on it! See, nooooo girl that would even THINK of leaving you is worth getting all depressed over! you're an awesome dude, and i'm sure there's someone out there for you!
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Post by: Taco <3 on April 06, 2011, 07:23:22 PM
rawr...i can say i ish a sad dragon bunny :'(
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on April 07, 2011, 12:36:00 AM
Why, what's wrong matey?
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Post by: Taco <3 on April 07, 2011, 02:40:43 AM
lotz nd lots of stuf like rawr
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Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on April 07, 2011, 05:24:54 PM
Fair enough. Just keep positive yeah? you just gotta realise that it'll get better soon. I might be able to help more but without knowing the specific problem I can just say that we are all here for you, and we all like you being here :3
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Post by: Taco <3 on April 07, 2011, 05:36:27 PM
ish just drama wif guys and friends almost commitn suicide
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Post by: Mr.Mustard on April 14, 2011, 09:09:09 AM
Things haven't really been good for me lately... I told the guy I like how I feel, and it turns out he found a mate the day before... I'm back in the hospital, had the crap beat out of me... And, I have no feeling at all in my right leg... I'm never going to walk again...
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Post by: Ares the Ram on April 14, 2011, 03:38:38 PM
dont feel so bad Jayme. Theres plenty of other peoples in the world to go after. and for your leg, just pretend youre a pirate! Argh!
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Post by: Taco <3 on April 14, 2011, 03:41:18 PM
the leg ish just a figment of yewr imagination....no one really has legs........oooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Post by: Alexei on April 14, 2011, 09:28:31 PM
I'm sorry to hear that Jayme, don't worry, I'm sure everything will start looking up for you.

There are times when everything just feels as if it's piling up on top of you, just hang in there and you can get through this! I know you can do it!