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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: ✡ on February 07, 2011, 01:39:44 AM
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I'm starting to feel like everything's going wrong in my life, I can never do anything right and everything ends up badly for me. These days I have the feeling that everyone hates me 24/7 and I feel like an ugly unlikeable person. My boss cut my hours at work because we were "losing business" but I didn't see anybody else get their hours cut. Now I have no money to actually get to work.
Then my family treats me like I don't belong. my brother has always been the better-treated one. My family takes turns telling me that I'm a screw-up and a failure and my dad has made it clear that he wished he had a different son. I'm not really the child my parents wanted me to be, so I'm not exactly well-treated.
I feel like I don't deserve happiness...
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There there Drake. *pats* If you can make it to 18, you can get your own place and be much happier! ^_^
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not if my parents refuse to pay for college like they're threatening to do because of my "bad" grades
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I never went to college and IM 3 years at a job and apartment. It can be done
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I need college though, I'm not good at anything and if I don't go to college then my parents will never let me leave
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Well, as I hope you already know Drake I'm always here for you.
Everyone deserves happiness and your just going through difficult times. I know how you feel, I felt the same way when I was living with my grandma almost a year ago.
The best thing to do is to stay positive, do the best you can, and don't have any expectations.
Once you have a certain expectaction about how something will occur you set yourself for disappointment. The best things come unexpected. ^_^
One thing is try to approach your problems in a differnet way. Do you study? If not, study for at least 2 hours a day.
2 hours out of a 24 hour day isn't alot of time taken away.
Heck, study in a room where your parents are and even ask for help if you don't understand something. Whether or not they know the answer or how to help you with the problem, that can literally prove that your trying to improve your grades.
As for your job, I would reccommend applying for other jobs as back up.
Just in case.
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There's a chance we could chill runz but chances are i won't get the college of my choice.
Ferrachu, my parents aren't even gratified by me studying so I figure it's no use trying to please them. Thanks for being my friend :3 *cuddle*
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There's a chance we could chill runz but chances are i won't get the college of my choice.
Ferrachu, my parents aren't even gratified by me studying so I figure it's no use trying to please them. Thanks for being my friend :3 *cuddle*
Don't say that unless you try. Than you can back yourself up when they complain about your grades.
You can live with me if you come down.
xD
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A foxroo and a ferrachu living together in the same apartment? Sounds like the plot for a silly sitcom!
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A foxroo and a ferrachu living together in the same apartment? Sounds like the plot for a silly sitcom!
+<_<+ Yesssh.
With the addition of a Tiger Chimera as well.
-Murrrr. Strokes tail in amusement.-
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But yeah, if college works out then I'll definitely come see the ferrachu. College means escape from my family!!
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I'm sorry you feel that way, Drake.
I stick to my motto "Things will get better" no matter how many times I've felt like shit, even to the brink of You-know-what, I just tell myself that things will look up and as far as I can tell, it's worked for me. Anytime depression sets in I just remind myself that things will get better, because they will.
Life always has its ups and downs, and as long as you remain optimistic, those up parts will come right back again.
During the low points I like to take some time to myself, do something that I really enjoy, like listening to music with the lights out or taking a long bath early in the morning before school.
The little things help immensely, in my experience.
If you feel like your brother is being treated better, you should talk to your parents about it, if they're reasonable adults then they'll try to do something about it.
I hope you can work this out, Drake.
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looks like things aren't getting any better, my parents are both pissed at me and took away all my stuff, now I have 0 freedoms...AGAIN
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That really sucks, but like I said, you just have to wait, find something that will keep you occupied until things get back to normal.
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I didn't even do anything wrong and I'm in the doghouse...blah! I'm moving away next May I hope..
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paints can get like that some times, just don't listens to them when they are like that. when mine our like that i dont lissen to them.
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I'm very sorry Kanga, even though parents only want what's best for their children then can be really blocks in your life, I know it. But once you have 18 years old they can't control you, you're free to do what ever you are.
I would invite you to live with me but you aren't from Portugal :3 :) (could definitely use someone like you in Portugal)
As for the depression, well, you're a teen and teens are often depressed and with their self-esteem in low levels. When I'm like this I usually just try to survive my day in school, get home, turn on the computer and enter the fandom again, that always makes me happy :)
Hey if you need anyone to talk to, I haz MSN on my profile (and btw I also added you)