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Title: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: The Past on September 10, 2010, 03:03:39 AM
When sophomore year started, I was in a number of classes with a friend. She was my only friend in my entire schedule. But a couple days later she changed schedules and has entirely different classes. I was upset at first, but I moved on after the first day she wasn't there.
It's been over a week since that happened, and I have not talked or even seen her since, except for the two times we passed each other while walking to classrooms. And that's all fine and dandy. But for some reason she thinks those coincidental sightings mean I'm stalking her and her other friend! Why? I don't friggen know!

Here is a message she sent me on MSN while I was offline.
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please really, find some friends, alright? it's not that hard, promise. find people who like what you like and get out abit. just stop stalking me and lulu, it looks so sad,...

That's right, two short glances are equal to being a stalker! Gah damn it! I hate being accused of complete bullcrap I don't do!

Oh, and I hate that "lulu" girl. Only because she obviously hates me for reasons I do not understand. I wouldn't be surprised if she was the person who told my friend, "OMG Bryanne is walking on the other side of the hallway and she glanced at you for a moment! STALKERRRR!!!!"  >:(

Eh, I knew the friendship wouldn't last. Honestly, I don't friggen care anymore. I just hate bullcrap claims about me.
And this was the same person I once said might join the furry fandom.

Oh, and I do have a new friend. She's only in one class of mine, but that's better than none! Hopefully she'll be more of a friend than the person I focused on in this rant...
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Ares the Ram on September 10, 2010, 03:34:48 AM
she thinks mighty high of herself. ooh this guy looked at me, he must be a stalker cause im so cute. in any case, she'll be forgotten when you graduate and youll never see her or her *ahem* friend, again.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: The Past on September 10, 2010, 03:38:15 AM
she thinks mighty high of herself. ooh this guy looked at me, he must be a stalker cause im so cute. in any case, she'll be forgotten when you graduate and youll never see her or her *ahem* friend, again.

Yep. It still sucks though, and it doesn't change the fact that I dislike false claims.

Oh and I'm a girl. Hehe. I'm Lita Julagupe, the same person who made your avatar. I'm being my second fursona at the moment. lol X3
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: DatFox Coleo on September 10, 2010, 08:37:00 AM
I punched my stalker in the face a few days ago :/
Yes, I have a stalker
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: The Past on September 10, 2010, 09:03:05 AM
Not exactly what I'm talking about here. I'm being wrongly accused of being a stalker just because I happened to cross paths with the accuser just out of chance.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Seko on September 10, 2010, 01:06:46 PM
i dont have that great advice sooooooo...

maybe make her see that she has no evidence to justify her claims?

or maybe make it clear that it is only a coincidence?

or ignore her?

Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Ares the Ram on September 11, 2010, 03:07:44 AM
she thinks mighty high of herself. ooh this guy looked at me, he must be a stalker cause im so cute. in any case, she'll be forgotten when you graduate and youll never see her or her *ahem* friend, again.

Yep. It still sucks though, and it doesn't change the fact that I dislike false claims.

Oh and I'm a girl. Hehe. I'm Lita Julagupe, the same person who made your avatar. I'm being my second fursona at the moment. lol X3

i figured it was you.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Buddywolf on September 11, 2010, 04:34:06 AM
Happened's to me quite a lot.  Been reported for it too.  I just walk around in a small school so...I got use to it cause there's really nothing to do...unless you want to try and make conversation and get your old friend to understand the way you have to go. 
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: ___ on September 11, 2010, 04:48:44 AM
I'd message her back saying "Don't flatter yourself. You're nothing more than a female dog in heat desprate for attention. That's why you're so lonley. GAWD! :P"

Hee hee... But yea. I understand.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Armalite_ on September 11, 2010, 05:31:18 AM
Pfffffffft.

Listen, she's being a total **** disturber. I dunno what's with girls and high school these days. If she said that to me, I'd laugh in her face. Me girlfriend's the same way, and I DO NOT tolerate it. She's always like "Oh, that's kinda sad." "Oh, I seen the way he looks at me." "Oh, I love how you think you're all manly with your collection of guns and your truck with the giant tires and suspension kit, your beer can pyramid, or when you try to eat 15lbs. of chicken wings in one night, when really you love ice cream and stuffed animals (LOL she doesn't know), and sad movies more than me." Please do not rob me of the last manly shred of dignity I have left and stfu. I don't care who you are, you don't call people out like that without asking for a fight...and she wonders why I always fight with her.

Srsly. Tell her to grow up.

Girly highschool drama. *rolls eyes*
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: The Past on September 11, 2010, 05:42:14 AM
Pfffffffft.

Listen, she's being a total **** disturber. I dunno what's with girls and high school these days. If she said that to me, I'd laugh in her face. Me girlfriend's the same way, and I DO NOT tolerate it. She's always like "Oh, that's kinda sad." "Oh, I seen the way he looks at me." "Oh, I love how you think you're all manly with your collection of guns and your truck with the giant tires and suspension kit, when really you love ice cream and stuffed animals (LOL she doesn't know) more than me." Please do not rob me of the last manly shred of dignity I have left and stfu. I don't care who you are, you don't call people out like that without asking for a fight...and she wonders why I always fight with her.

Srsly. Tell her to grow up.

Girly highschool drama. *rolls eyes*

Damn, Spike. I hate girls like that as well. Friggen whining female dogs... Yeah, if I get a chance to talk to my ex friend I will. I sent her a reply to that message she sent me but I haven't got a response yet. I wouldn't be surprised if she blocked me.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Armalite_ on September 11, 2010, 05:45:34 AM
Pfffffffft.

Listen, she's being a total **** disturber. I dunno what's with girls and high school these days. If she said that to me, I'd laugh in her face. Me girlfriend's the same way, and I DO NOT tolerate it. She's always like "Oh, that's kinda sad." "Oh, I seen the way he looks at me." "Oh, I love how you think you're all manly with your collection of guns and your truck with the giant tires and suspension kit, when really you love ice cream and stuffed animals (LOL she doesn't know) more than me." Please do not rob me of the last manly shred of dignity I have left and stfu. I don't care who you are, you don't call people out like that without asking for a fight...and she wonders why I always fight with her.

Srsly. Tell her to grow up.

Girly highschool drama. *rolls eyes*

Damn, Spike. I hate girls like that as well. Friggen whining female dogs... Yeah, if I get a chance to talk to my ex friend I will. I sent her a reply to that message she sent me but I haven't got a response yet. I wouldn't be surprised if she blocked me.

Word. (Y) I wish ya the best.
Title: Re: Coincidental Glance = STALKING!
Post by: Gabag on September 11, 2010, 06:20:28 AM
When sophomore year started, I was in a number of classes with a friend. She was my only friend in my entire schedule. But a couple days later she changed schedules and has entirely different classes. I was upset at first, but I moved on after the first day she wasn't there.
It's been over a week since that happened, and I have not talked or even seen her since, except for the two times we passed each other while walking to classrooms. And that's all fine and dandy. But for some reason she thinks those coincidental sightings mean I'm stalking her and her other friend! Why? I don't friggen know!

Here is a message she sent me on MSN while I was offline.
Quote
please really, find some friends, alright? it's not that hard, promise. find people who like what you like and get out abit. just stop stalking me and lulu, it looks so sad,...

That's right, two short glances are equal to being a stalker! Gah damn it! I hate being accused of complete bullcrap I don't do!

Oh, and I hate that "lulu" girl. Only because she obviously hates me for reasons I do not understand. I wouldn't be surprised if she was the person who told my friend, "OMG Bryanne is walking on the other side of the hallway and she glanced at you for a moment! STALKERRRR!!!!"  >:(

Eh, I knew the friendship wouldn't last. Honestly, I don't friggen care anymore. I just hate bullcrap claims about me.
And this was the same person I once said might join the furry fandom.

Oh, and I do have a new friend. She's only in one class of mine, but that's better than none! Hopefully she'll be more of a friend than the person I focused on in this rant...

Well thats the suck, but then its high school people are wierd like that.

What i would do, is text that person, then as they text you back,hold your phone to their ear. As they freak out and are like "WTF"

just go

"THATS! Stalking" and just walk away with no emotion what so ever

or do the other thing


although i just find one friend
make friends with all of their friends
and BADDA BING, i see them pretty much every day

and some i annoy more then others cause they;re used to it, like the 3 in Gym Class,