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Title: need help :(
Post by: FireFox on October 22, 2009, 11:07:07 PM: i really started liking this girl at my school and she is really cool and all and she wears my jersy on friday for football which is great :), but she know i really like her a lot and we txt all the time but im not sure if she feels the same way :\ and it kills me when i dont know if she feels the same way about me. any ideas what i should do?
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: JellyMuffins on October 22, 2009, 11:11:14 PM: Umm.. be somewhat forward and actually ask her out? Seems like a simple enough solution
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: Vee Katame: His Wolfy on October 22, 2009, 11:36:59 PM: Some people have a fear of rejection, so it is difficult to ask someone out right upfront or ask them if they like them right upfront.
I suggest having a friend ask her what she thinks of you/if she likes you.
Right now that's all I have for advice. I may have more for you later.
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on October 23, 2009, 02:26:43 AM: BE A MAN

ask her, dude.

if you get rejected, then it never would have worked anyway and you're giving yourself more grief by stalling the inevitable. Ask, if she says no, then move on. Simple as.
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: KittKat chunky~ on October 25, 2009, 03:57:49 PM: Quote
if you get rejected, then it never would have worked anyway and you're giving yourself more grief by stalling the inevitable. Ask, if she says no, then move on. Simple as.

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Some people have a fear of rejection, so it is difficult to ask someone out right upfront

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and it kills me when i dont know if she feels the same way about me.

i know how ya feel... and what Vee said is good about asking a friend of hers....
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: iKero-chu™ on October 25, 2009, 04:12:54 PM: Quote from: leeroy on October 22, 2009, 11:07:07 PM
i really started liking this girl at my school and she is really cool and all and she wears my jersy on friday for football which is great :), but she know i really like her a lot and we txt all the time but im not sure if she feels the same way :\ and it kills me when i dont know if she feels the same way about me. any ideas what i should do?

Well, judging by this it seems like she likes you.
Flirt with her a bit, drop some hints that you like her and see how she responds.
(:
& after a while just ask her: "How do you feel about me?"
Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: KittKat chunky~ on October 25, 2009, 04:16:18 PM: Quote
Well, judging by this it seems like she likes you.
Flirt with her a bit, drop some hints that you like her and see how she responds.
(:
& after a while just ask her: "How do you feel about me?"
Posted on: Today at 03:57:49 PMPosted by: Kitt

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Title: Re: need help :(
Post by: Inky Vulpes on October 26, 2009, 10:25:07 AM: Be confident, polite, and yourself. If she says no after that, then you can still be friends and you continue on.