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Title: i'm lost and confused
Post by: jason on June 01, 2009, 08:25:14 PM

ok so here's the thing, i'm looking for a ...companion? and i have someone in mind,i met  her in grade school and stayed friends with her till 8th grade but due to problems iwas forced to move. i now am out of school and have my liscanse and car, i would like to see her again but i'm not sure it's the right thing to do. help  :(

Title: Re: i'm lost and confused
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on June 01, 2009, 09:21:38 PM

I dont see how it's not the right thing to do. Talk to her, see if you still like her then move on from there. I really dont see the problem with not investigating an opportunity.

Title: Re: i'm lost and confused
Post by: jason on June 02, 2009, 12:07:20 AM

maybe i'm just nervious. i feel like i should at least try but i'm woried she'll say no, or worse she wont remember me. your gonna say ''i wont know till i try'' but this is hard. i guess i should just go for it and hope for the best right? i kinda hate it when i ask for advice and end up giving it too myself, ya know, but maybe i could use a little nudge...  :sniffle:

Title: Re: i'm lost and confused
Post by: Asia Kali Yusufzai on June 02, 2009, 12:16:57 AM

Well think of it this way. If she does say no, then all you've lost is your regret. You would be able to move on and live your life. If she says yes then Wahay!

If she doesnt remember you, then introduce yourself, and let her get to know you once more. You may not get a girlfriend but you'll probably regain a friend.

The thing is, if you dont do anything, you'll just get more agitated and upset about it. So get it over with.

If you need a nudge, then here's your nudge, *nudges Jason*. There's really no reason not to.

Title: Re: i'm lost and confused
Post by: White Wolf Guardian on June 02, 2009, 01:01:33 AM

Well as stated in William Shakespeare's King Lear play, doing nothing will get you nothing. So if you want something Jason, ya gotta try for it :D

If you aren't completely confident when interacting with her, just take it slowly, if she's interested in you she will offer her love in return :P

Title: Re: i'm lost and confused
Post by: jason on June 02, 2009, 02:26:29 AM

thanks guys, i *sigh* i guess i should listen to myself more than i do... i'll do it and... i think i'll be online when i do so i have you with me, i know it sounds wierd but i feel i can trust you, so, thanks. and thank you for the hug kevin, i really needed that  :ded: