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Furry Chat => General => Topic started by: White Wolf Guardian on May 16, 2009, 02:38:28 AM
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I hope someday I'll find a furry soul-mate. Does anyone else here believe in soul-mates?
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I don't personally believe in soul mates, no.
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Yes, I believe in soulmates. I'm dating mine right now and he's a Furry (though it wouldn't bother me any if he wasn't). He's mainly one because he saw me on this site and he realized that he was one too.
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That's cool Veesmith, I wish I could find someone like that, unfortunately I'm just no good at keeping girlfriends.
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I Don't have a soul mate, I kind've believe in the whole thing, but I'm still lookin..
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Don't worry, you'll find someone. :)
I was about to give up on love before my now-mate asked me to be his girlfriend and we had been friends for two years before then...and it's a long distance relationship too.
Believe me, the wait will have been well worth it once you find "the One".
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Yea... I hope so.
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i'm not in any real rush anyways, thanks for the encouragement though.
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No problem.
Yeah, no rush at all. I just like to encourage people to not give up because it makes me kind of sad to hear about people giving up on love...but that's just me.
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Well the first relationship was great, I was actually ready to settle down after I was done with college with her... and then she cheated on me and told me there was never really anything between us... I never saw any signals of this coming, she really seemed like she was going to stick with me till the end.
The second relationship I broke up because with my girlfriend because I just wasn't feeling the magic that I did in the first one... just too many differences and it didn't feel right.
And now... I mean after college I'll be 30 years old and at that point in time, I mean my youth is gone forever and the chances of ever finding anyone are practically gone...
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I can't say I believe in soul mates because unless I'm mistaken, that means theres only one person for me out of all the populace, and the person might be from a country that I might not be able to prononce....
I'd rather believe that theres at least more than two of that kind of person in case something tragic happens to one of them >.>
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Well the idea of a soul-mate is that they are still going to be alive by the time you find them >.>
Otherwise that person wouldn't be your soul-mate :sparkle:
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I believe in soul mates, but I believe you can also be happy with whoever else you end up choosing. It might just take a little more work with the relationship.
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i really thought that could work with my last relationship, but I'm afraid that once you go to far with the relationship, there's no turning back and what if you don't really love that person, but I mean you really liked them more as a friend?
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well i do belive in spiritual connection's but i've never found that person.
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Yea I wish I could find something like that, that's kind of what I'm looking for =s
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I'm indifferent on the topic to be honest. maybe some people have someone who ends up being "the one," but some others don't.
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Well there is 6 Billion people on this earth.
so id suppose it would be hard to find ''the one''.
+ a soul mate could be a friend to and that's what i'm searching for.
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7 billion people... And I found my soulmate. Ruffie get your arse over here! I'm impatient! :D
Trust me, not a single event will ever decrease my love for him. And not if he were to pass away or leave me would I search for another mate...
When my mum passed away, the silver lining that was her love broke from my heart... And when I met Ruffie, he replaced it with diamond lining. :lovestruck4:
He completes me! :-[
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Well, frankly, even though I do believe in soul mates, I'm not sure I believe there's only one for everyone. If so, it would be pretty impossible to meet just that one. But just because I think there may be more than one doesn't mean they're any easier to find.
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I, personally do not believe in soul mates or 'The one' I just think that you connect better with some people who have personalities that compliment your own
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I believe in soul mates to an extent. I don't believe there's only ONE.. And I do agree with this:
I just think that you connect better with some people who have personalities that compliment your own
Though I have experienced "soul mates" I think in person. I've been with my mate, TheResult, for quite a while now. Two years in June, if I'm not mistaken. Every time we've disagreed, we've both been able to come out on top, closer and stronger than we were before. And though I would like to believe head over heels that he's "the one," I can't help but reflect on my personal fears about high school love and how it usually never works. Though, I should say if I've experienced anything like that "soul mate" theory... He would be it.
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Well if it's any consolation, it depends on the people in high school relationships. One of my friends has been going strong with his girlfriend since sophomore year to beyond into junior college now.
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I've been dating him since my sophomore year as well.
:3
I fear, but I try to throw that fear away.
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Well if there's anything I've learned about the relationships I've had... just don't think about the future too much and just take things day-by-day, and don't think about the possible downturns. It never helps, trust me on that one.
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Yeah, it really does depend on the people when it comes to school relationships. Some are too immature and/or not ready for a serious commited relationship. (No offense to anyone who may fit that bill.)
I believe you and TheResult will last, Rigor, especially since your relationship gets stronger when you have disagreements. That's how the best relationships work, all bad things just make the relationship stronger and make the couple closer.
That's how it works with my mate and I as well.
Well, I don't exactly believe that there's only one person for everybody (just ask those who get married after their spouse dies, although I'll never do that). But when I think of the title "the One", I think of the definition as "the person who is right for you and completes you" and it doesn't necessarily mean there's just one, just that that's the person that you've chosen that fits what you want for a partner.
I mean, yeah, it would be way to hard to find "the One" if it meant just one person, but that's not exactly it (in my mind at least).
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Hooray, I got back together with my girlfriend :-[
I resolved an issue that I didn't really want to resolve, but I did anyways >.>
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7 billion people... And I found my soulmate. Ruffie get your arse over here! I'm impatient! :D
Trust me, not a single event will ever decrease my love for him. And not if he were to pass away or leave me would I search for another mate...
When my mum passed away, the silver lining that was her love broke from my heart... And when I met Ruffie, he replaced it with diamond lining. :lovestruck4:
He completes me! :-[
Oh Donny~! You always come up with the sweetest things. I love you~!
And I would never find anyone else as special as you. I think about my soulmate, Donny, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Dont worry too much about it kingdomkz, your soulmate will come. And it'll come sooner than you think :D
"Believe me, the wait will have been well worth it once you find "the One"."- I have to agree with Vee.
"and don't think about the possible downturns. It never helps, trust me on that one." So True, But hard not to..
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Heh. Here here! (To the hopeless romantic thing.)
Congrats on getting back with your girlfriend, kingdomkz.
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Personally I don't believe in soul mates....I've had mates online (too many to count)..and I thought a couple of them were "the one" But I guess they weren't...but...coincidentally...I found an old friend on a online dating web site (Plenty of fish)...and I've known him though out my high school years..until I graduated...I haven't seen him since...and from his profile..he sounds either gay or bi with male preference..but I had no idea he was till I read that. So I'm hoping to meet up with him again soon and maybe start a relationship of some kind...heh...come to think of it...he'd be the first real mate i've ever had...on account I've never had a mate in RL before...so I'm kinda nervous/shy about this whole fiasco...
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Well, I hope your "fiasco" turns out good for you in the end, Debonis. You know how I'm always cheering you on in relationships anyway because I hate seeing you upset when they don't work out, so I really hope that this thing works out.
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Personally I don't believe in soul mates....I've had mates online (too many to count)..and I thought a couple of them were "the one" But I guess they weren't...but...coincidentally...I found an old friend on a online dating web site (Plenty of fish)...and I've known him though out my high school years..until I graduated...I haven't seen him since...and from his profile..he sounds either gay or bi with male preference..but I had no idea he was till I read that. So I'm hoping to meet up with him again soon and maybe start a relationship of some kind...heh...come to think of it...he'd be the first real mate i've ever had...on account I've never had a mate in RL before...so I'm kinda nervous/shy about this whole fiasco...
I hope that you find the one for you. :)
Personally, I'm not sure if I'll ever find a mate. I'm a realist, and in a way I don't believe in soul mates. But in a way, I kind of do... It's kind of confusing to explain. In general, I'm pretty sure in this life I'm not meant to have someone to spend my entire life with.... As depressing as it sounds. xDDDD
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Well don't ever sell yourself short, everyone can find someone, sometimes you just have to try harder than other people =s
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Well don't ever sell yourself short, everyone can find someone, sometimes you just have to try harder than other people =s
Maybe you're right. I've just watched too many bad relationships I suppose, so I really don't put much trust into them. xDD
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Been there done that, but there's always more fish in the water :P
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Point proven. :P I'm just glad I found the furry fandom because I've met so many nice people on here.
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Ditto me too, I was kind of in denial about being furry for about a decade >.>... Lots of nice peoples here, a lot more welcoming than some of the therians I was accustomed to :-*
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Ditto me too, I was kind of in denial about being furry for about a decade >.>... Lots of nice peoples here, a lot more welcoming than some of the therians I was accustomed to :-*
Is Gabag one of the welcoming welcomiers?
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Yeah; a lot of people out there wouldn't understand and just call me a freak for being a furry.... Oh well. I have everyone on here. :]
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Exactly why I was hoping it wasn't true... but oh well, win some lose some. I was not too happy about discovering that I was also bisexual. But gotta live with it. I've been hiding the way I am for a long time, only online can I be myself =s
And yes Gabag, you are a welcoming welcomer :)
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Maybe For someone but not for me! Or Maybe anybody is a soul mate for me I even don't know!
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I hate to sound silly here but what exactly is a Soul mate? I have a rough idea but I want to be sure :P
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Well don't ever sell yourself short, everyone can find someone, sometimes you just have to try harder than other people =s
SOOOO true... I was always really down, everyone where I live are complete Censored For Your Safety (and I don-t want to be warned xP), except a few. But as soon as I found Wolfgang here on the FF, it's like a dream :3
I've never been so happy with someone in my entire life, I feel like he understands me in almost (or every) way :lovestruck4: xD
I hate to sound silly here but what exactly is a Soul mate? I have a rough idea but I want to be sure :P
Google (or Wikipedia xP) is your friend!
Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmate
^^ Internetz for the win xP
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Thanks Foxx^^ In that case, I do believe in Soul mates, but I also believe you can be happy with someone who is NOT your soulmate^^
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You're welcome ^^
And yeah, I also believe it. I didn't, but Wolf changed that. But I doubt a bit that there is only "the One". I met a lot of people here that I love a lot too ^^ (not as much as Wolfy, tho :-[)
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There are different stages of love. It's kind of hard to believe there's a person made exactly for you.
I highly doubt I'll find someone that fits me perfectly......... So for me, I believe in soul mates................... Just not when it comes to me. xD
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I believe in Soul-Mates.
I found mine, its just we're not together.
c:
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its nice to belive that there is someone out there for you, but sometimes you think you found the one... they dont hate you but, they dont want to be with you. but, the one truth in this world will allways stand... yes soul mates do exist
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i believe in soul-mates but i dont have a furry soul mate ill find him one day
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Yep. I definitely believe in soul mates, but haven't found mine either. javascript:void(0);
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i finally got a mate his nam eis moonraiser
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cool! Lucky! lol
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thank you i hope you find one soon aqua
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Thanks!I hope I find one soon too. ^_^
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just keep asking around youll find the one
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Okie Dokie! ^_^
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(Removed, try keeping on topic, this is thread is asking if you believe in the possibility of there being a soulmate for you)
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i finally got a mate his nam eis moonraiser
Moonraiser's a legend B)
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Found mine we are going onto a year and a month soon.
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Me and my girlfriend have been together... about 4 months, no problems so far so I think this relationship seems solid, this girlfriend doesn't seem like she'll cheat on me like the last one did ;)
I really thought the first girlfriend I had was so awesome I would have never left her so much that I was dead-set on her being my soul-mate... and then she just goes and blows me off like that in only a matter of week of being apart by cut communications thanks to the meddling of her parents. My new girlfriend is great, but it has never felt the same since my first girlfriend, I wonder if it ever will feel the same again... Anyone else here ever have/had this problem?
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I've had a similar problem.
My first boyfriend and mate felt completely like my soul-mate.
But it was not to be; He left me.
The next mate I had was brilliant. And the relationship was fantastic whilst it lasted, but in the end it fizzled out.
But still, to this day, I am still deeply in love with my first mate, and he knows it. My second mate was great, but he didn't
feel like my first. Sure, I was happy with him, but with my first there was just something extra special.
(I do not count my relationship with Donovan as a relationship at all, since it was so false and quick.)
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Well I'm glad I am not alone on that feeling... but in more uplifting news, me and my girlfriend met for the very first time on Sunday and we went out on a date to Red Lobster and went to the movies. It was one of the best days in my life, this is my first ever "official" girlfriend :3 The best part is her parents trusted me, even though her dad was very hesitant and protective, i guess my urge to be responsible and standing by for making sure everyone was taken care of during our lunch meeting between my family and her family. It felt like they seemed to approve of me *at least I hope* ^^;
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Who wouldn't approve of you :P
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Because... we have never met in real life before that day on Sunday, we were complete strangers and I guess I gave a good enough impression to make 1st base :3
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You casanova you :3