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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Zinc on April 11, 2009, 08:39:52 AM

Title: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 11, 2009, 08:39:52 AM
 ??? It can't be easy revealing to those who thought so highly of you that your a furry. :shcoked: What if they find out by themseles, what wiII they think. :'( Ah man I'm screwed...
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 11, 2009, 04:59:13 PM
Being a furry is nothing to ashamed of! Tell them before they find out themselves, or they might find out the unsavory parts of the fandom and think that your part of some cult. Show them the clean stuff and maybe send them to the Furry article on WikiFur. And if they're still weirded out by it enough to not wanna be with you then [Gets slapped by mod] them! :boom: People should be your friend no matter what or who you are. My friends were all like "So that's why you always (Insert random wolf behavior here)" or make some jokes about it.
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: WingedZephyr on April 11, 2009, 05:54:08 PM
A decent percentage of the time, people don't even know what a furry is. So it's not too hard to move on from there - you just need to explain it to them.
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 12, 2009, 02:25:35 AM
Yeah, I guest you are right. I asked somebody if they knew what a furry was and they went on and on about Peter Pann, so I walked away! OMG it was like completely walking into a dead end! :squish:
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Umber on April 12, 2009, 02:26:37 AM
I don't think it should be too hard, I myself haven't come out to all my friends, some suspect it, some I've come out to and they don't care they just make jokes sometimes, my family thinks I'm weird for wearing a collar and tail, my brother knew/suspected and doesn't care. Its easier to ease them into it too, like me wearing a tail, then telling them once they are used to the tail. I haven't come out to some of my friends because they will equal me to another fur in the area that doesn't have a good name because he is extremely sexual. I haven't told my mom because I know she will look things up and freak about it regardless of how I explain it to her. Im still me, I havent changed so its shouldnt be a big deal, its not like its really 'life changing' like coming out gay is. (I use that analogy because it can be a life changing experience and have no problem with the gay community)
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 12, 2009, 02:36:41 AM
Peter Pan? The flying guy? :squish:
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 12, 2009, 02:54:43 AM
Wow... yeah the flying guy. How'd they... oh they might have been thinking of Tinker Bell!
post script: Nice advice... umm... oh crap forgot the name, I got to make amends for that...  :th_PyongLlora: O:)
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 12, 2009, 02:58:38 AM
So they thought Peter Pan was furry? OH with the Lost Boys wearing the raccoon and rabbit pajamas! Hm... Not quite.
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 12, 2009, 03:22:55 AM
... Umm... well... ok I give up... truth be told, I have never even seen a Peter Pan movie :no:...
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 12, 2009, 03:25:43 AM
Well, they wern't furry but they COULD be because of fursuiting, but they were just pajamas, so I'd say Peter Pan isn't furry.
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 12, 2009, 03:44:36 AM
Wasn't exactly that they used Peter Pan as an example, but they completely avoided the question!
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 12, 2009, 11:15:17 PM
??? I'm confused... Can you list the conversation?
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 13, 2009, 02:13:35 AM
I'll try
[Me] Hey Misty do you know what a furry is?
[Misty] Isn't they them tiny things that fly around in Peter Pan.
[Me] Peter Pan Misty?
[Misty] You know, the movie with the flying boy in green.
[Me] I know what Peter Pan is Misty, but-
[Misty] My favorite one was with Robin Williams.
[Me] Aghh... nevermind.
[Misty] What?
[Me] ...
That's the bare minimum of the dialouge that I recall...
 :umm: for those who couldn't put two and two together, Misty was my mom... heh.
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 13, 2009, 02:18:21 AM
oohhh... -_-
Sounds like she has CSI-itus...
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 13, 2009, 02:37:19 AM
 :snicker: Heh... heh... I've heard a lot of talk about that one, but I've never seen it. :umm: another rant about us no doubt...
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: ___ on April 13, 2009, 02:42:57 AM
I saw parts about it when I was younger and I remember thinking "I hope I never meet one of them" and now I look back and lol hard. :D
Title: Re: Hidden secret
Post by: Zinc on April 13, 2009, 03:17:22 AM
Sounds interesting, I really need to see it. :yeah-yeah: