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Title: I need help in my life...
Post by: Noke on March 05, 2009, 09:12:17 PM
For the past while I have felt so depressed, im not emo or anything, i just dont n=know whats getting to me, I'll be fine and perky one minute and then i feel terrible.

As I was telling fur flyer, this is one of those times i wish i had a mate to hold me and comfort me   :'(
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Post by: Wolfgang on March 05, 2009, 09:13:24 PM
I felt depressed a couple of weeks back. *hugs you* I know how you feel.
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Post by: Arilys DuskFlare on March 05, 2009, 09:15:20 PM
I also felt depressed some weeks ago. *also hugs you*
I hope you find someone soon.
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Post by: Noke on March 05, 2009, 09:16:37 PM
*Hugs Wolfgang and foxx tight* thanks a lot :sniffle:
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Post by: Wolfgang on March 05, 2009, 11:31:37 PM
*pets your head*

Being depressed is no fun, I felt miserable and even suicidal.
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Post by: Noke on March 05, 2009, 11:43:54 PM
i'm sorry to say ive tried it.... thank god it didnt work, im happy to be alive
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Post by: Blackout on March 06, 2009, 12:00:06 AM
When I'm sad I just listen to Coburn - We interrupt this program, always cheers me up.
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Post by: iKero-chu™ on March 06, 2009, 01:27:15 PM
The best thing to do is not focus too much on what is making you depressed.
Try thinking about all the things that make you happy and perky, and once you do keep your mind on that and don't veer away.

If that doesn't work listen to music and cry it out.
(:
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Post by: Noke on March 06, 2009, 01:56:57 PM
thanks guys *hugs all* I'm trying my best to get throught the rough times. i think my problem is that I'm nearing the end of my schhol life, and it seems like all my friends are leaving me. Especially over the summer, many of them will be away, on vacation or something, I'll have a total of like 2 of my good friends to hang out with. O well. :'(
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Post by: Dog Donovan on March 07, 2009, 03:05:44 AM
I got five minutes on here and there is nothing I would like to do better than help a friend with those few minutes.

What I want ya' to do, Noke, is FORCE yourself to be happy. Some people don't think they can, and if they don't THINK they can, they obviously can't. I want you to freaking put yourself to the screws and tell yourself to be happy! The many times in my life I have even gotten to a depressed or angry state, I laugh out loud and then grin stupidly. It is a really, really, odd way of curing bad emotions compared to others, and some people don't think they can. If you can't the next best suggestion is what Kero suggested.

Oh yeah, and don't use vices of any sort; don't over-eat or do a single thing for extended time either. Do various things you love without suspending on one for too long, as that makes your thoughts linger. And, if you have expendable items that break happily, take a large blunt object and smash them, being sure that they don't make you regret it afterwards.

*Hugs tight and pats on the back* Everything is alright for you when YOU right everything, you know? Love ya' Noke!
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Post by: Noke on March 07, 2009, 04:45:03 AM
thanks DD, my friends on here can always make me feel better.  *hugs* love ya too
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Post by: Renaud Magicpaw on March 07, 2009, 04:51:38 AM
I'm not sure if this will make you feel better, but, remember, things will always get better, no mater how bad they seem, they will always get better in the end, the suffering you go through now is just your way of getting strong enough to handle it.
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Post by: Noke on March 07, 2009, 05:51:47 AM
aww thanx rosuto *hugs tight* i love hugs
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Post by: ___ on March 07, 2009, 06:40:05 AM
YEA! Do what Donovan said! BREAK STUFF! :boom:
And just remember no matter how far your friends are going, that you can stay in contact with them.^^  ....Right?
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Post by: Kit Angel on March 08, 2009, 02:52:28 AM
when ever life gets you down just get back up with a smile on your face ^w^ thats what i always do ^w^even though i am depressed here and there but never let anything get you down just go on every day with a smile on the muzzle of yours buddy ^w^
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Post by: Noke on March 08, 2009, 06:24:29 PM
i really love having friends on here who truly seem to understand me and pull me back on my feet
*hugs everyone*
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Post by: Kit Angel on March 09, 2009, 02:13:24 PM
No prob what are friends supposed to do ^w^
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Post by: Dog Donovan on March 09, 2009, 11:09:03 PM
When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. However, those sour, sour lemons contain certain compounds that can make absolutely fantastic other delicacies.