I believe I have been developing a pretty strong Habit/Addition on the Forums over my time here, it's very odd and I not fully sure what to do, I don't have a desire to quit but I still want to moderate and combat it a bit. I'll try to kinda explain some of the issues, one, is with posting habits, now of days it seems for some topics, I always have the compulsion to engage whenever I see activity in quite a few topics and have a urge to get the last post in a way, ( probably shows XD ) and two it seems my mind always have to be updated on the Forums, even when I go out. I'll pull out my phone quite a bit and refresh it over and over when heading out and when I'm at home I have it auto looping. There will be many times when I have a desire to do a different activity but I will usually be tempted and pulled back into posting at the sight of activity in certain places or be really focused in on looking at the activity at least and not so much on said activity. I'm not sure what the issue is, if it's maybe some kind of attention issue here or some other thing causing it but I just want to figure it all out. ( Sorry if some stuff is off, wrote this at like 2:30 AM ) Thank you for any advice and such ^_^
here is a skype DM with me talking to someone about it, in case what I wrote above came out all weird
yea I don't plan to quit but I definitely need to figure out things. I'm just not sure why my mind think it needs to have the last response on all those topics in such a fast manner, that's one big thing. If I can get past that whole thing, would be much better. I don't know if it's like some issue with attention for me, it's very weird. I know that will probably be hard to break addiction, would like to be able to enjoy Forums without all the stress when I want to do other stuff and forum is active. Will definitely need a bit of help and stuff, maybe make a thread about it.
I will just have to become mean so you don't want to post here with me around.
Just Kidding. ^_^
But turn off the auto-refresh. When you want to check the site you will make it a manual decision to check the site. So if you are doing something else you can limit the distraction. Remember that with message boards, your message is not lost. If you post something, someone can look at it in a few minutes to a few hours to a few days depending on the topic.
If you think it is an attention thing, try to do conversations with friends that you made here. So, when you still want to talk to someone you can message them rather than hit the forum.
I got addicted to another message board once. I still go there, but after something happened to me and I figured out that many of the folks that claimed to be my friends there did not respond or care, it gave me thought on my behavior. I hope nothing like that happens to you.
This is all I got right now. If I think of others, I will let you know.