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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Kara on April 05, 2016, 02:59:05 PM
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Hmmmmm, let's see. I'll make a list.
1. School is giving me bs
2. My brother
3. Im constantly being pudhed down, mentally and physically
4. My friends are pretty much leaving me
... must I go on?
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I'd love to try and help you, but unfortunately I'd need to know specifics, if you don't mind?
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Hmmmmm, let's see. I'll make a list.
1. School is giving me bs
2. My brother
3. Im constantly being pudhed down, mentally and physically
4. My friends are pretty much leaving me
... must I go on?
Honestly, I'm not gonna be that one asshole who says "oh, I've had it worse, don't feel bad.", but I'm gonna tell you this; I've been facing really bad issues for many years, and I've never tried suicide or self-harm.
The only advice I can give, is to fight back if you don't like it. If school is giving you BS; form a group of friends and solve it. If you're being pushed down constantly; stand up and push them off. If you're friends are leaving you; find new friends. Someone who leaves you, especially if it's for some bullshit/trivial reason; they are probably not your real friends. A true friend, or any friend at all, is supposed to be there for you, to help you in your time of need, to have a good time with you. If some 'friends' leave you for a dumb reason, leave them too, don't emotionally invest yourself in someone who didn't emotionally invest in you.
I can't stop you directly through a computer screen, but, please… if you're thinking of suicide or self harm, don't do it.
If you need to talk about anything, message me.
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1. School is usually BS, but it's possible to finish and you will have graduated before you know it.
2. Your brother is your family and one day he will mature or move out. Whichever comes first.
3. Life is a test and we're always thrown in the deep end. We sink or we swim and persevere through it until we learn to swim with the current.
4. Friends come and go, it's a part of growing up. You will meet new friends in life at the most unexpected times. Cherish what good times you shared and look to the future.
You can go on if you'd like but it sounds like all of these problems are temporary. Time is the best medicine and you will appreciate it as you get older. We are here for you anytime you need to talk. Don't feel like you have no one to talk to or relate with.