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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Nii on September 21, 2015, 12:57:03 AM
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So, there is this girl who is really sweet with me, she said she likes me more than a friend, and I said that I like her that way too... But guess what? she has a boyfriend and it's one of my best friends :T
Now both of us are confused, we don't know what to do, she tried to break up with him even before meeting me but he just gets sick and depressed days after she tries, so she can't break up without emotionaly hurting him, but we just can't wait for an opportunity to find a way to sort things the right way, and I'm going to feel bad if she breaks up with him because of me. We don't know what to do about this...
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This situation sort of depends whether how old you are, if you are still in highschool don't bother with her especially if you want a lasting relationship, High Schools love's don't really last plus you don't want to lose your friendship especially if he is a best friend. If your out of highschool and you believe that the relationship will last get her to break up with him, its not her responsibility that he should feel happy, You will lose your friendship but it will be worth it if you believe it will last.
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Yeah, we still are in high school. So I'm just going to wait and see what happens, maybe we'll just forget this and go on with our lives idk. Thanks for the advice.
Post Merge: September 21, 2015, 11:45:56 PM
Just an update, I trusted one of my friends with this information, and guess what? they threw it up in the air for everyone to see... Why i am so naive? so stupid? oh my god...
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Just wanted to update that someone discovered this situation and threatened us with it, because of this the girl decided to tell everything to her boyfriend(ex boyfriend right now) and he understood it completely, he is not mad at all. I should've trusted him because I know he was very understanding and responsible, he is only mad at the one who threatened us. Everything went perfectly, We are in a relationship now, my friend is not mad at me, and everyone hates the girl who got the information. Everything went a lot better than expected :)
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It's good to hear that everything ended well. Sorry to hear about the atempted blackmail.
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Thanks, now that all of this ended for now I'm feeling better than I've ever been before, guess I'm going to be in a relationship from now on ^_^
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Best of luck.