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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: asterisk on August 22, 2015, 11:49:06 AM
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I literally can't get along with almost anybody. Maybe I'm just picky of who I want to be around. Maybe I'm just difficult.
But it's annoying. All I tend to do is argue with people- and I'm not even the one starting them most of the time. People get offended because I accidentally say the wrong thing. But I aplogize. A lot. I constantly send apologies. And they won't accept it.
It's funny, because, throughout my whole life, people have done nothing but berate me and drag me down. And almost nobody ever apolgized for anything. Call me gullible, but if somebody did... I'd accept it. I'd welcome them back. Why these people won't is beyond me. I never physically hurt anybody, never stole from anyone, all I did was accidentally say the wrong thing. And no matter how much I try to make up for it, it's useless.
That and a lot of people don't have much in common with me. So you can imagine dating is near impossible too but even just friendship... it escapes me. I don't know what it's like to be someone else, only myself. I can't see from someone else's point of view.
And honestly, I hate to say this, but... if I don't get along with anyone, what's the point of living? I'll just be miserable my entire life. I've been in therapy for years and it doesn't help. I feel like my life is going to suck, even more than it does already. And everyone else is doing a good job of making sure it does.
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You can feel free to massage me either by PM or skype :P
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I know how ya feel
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i know how you feel as well please PM me any time you want :)
i am very forgiving too you have to do a lot to get me to a point whir a simple sorry wouldn't work and i mean a lot
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I literally can't get along with almost anybody. Maybe I'm just picky of who I want to be around. Maybe I'm just difficult.
But it's annoying. All I tend to do is argue with people- and I'm not even the one starting them most of the time. People get offended because I accidentally say the wrong thing. But I aplogize. A lot. I constantly send apologies. And they won't accept it.
It's funny, because, throughout my whole life, people have done nothing but berate me and drag me down. And almost nobody ever apolgized for anything. Call me gullible, but if somebody did... I'd accept it. I'd welcome them back. Why these people won't is beyond me. I never physically hurt anybody, never stole from anyone, all I did was accidentally say the wrong thing. And no matter how much I try to make up for it, it's useless.
That and a lot of people don't have much in common with me. So you can imagine dating is near impossible too but even just friendship... it escapes me. I don't know what it's like to be someone else, only myself. I can't see from someone else's point of view.
And honestly, I hate to say this, but... if I don't get along with anyone, what's the point of living? I'll just be miserable my entire life. I've been in therapy for years and it doesn't help. I feel like my life is going to suck, even more than it does already. And everyone else is doing a good job of making sure it does.
Think of the people you 'hang out' with. Are they really worth your time? If they can't even forgive you for a simple word error, then they don't deserve you. True friends stay through all, good and bad. You just need to look for your true friends.
I know it's hard, but life is the point of living. You could be the greatest man in the world, and to waste it all over a bunch of idiots who never will equal to you? You're amazing, dude, you just need to show it to the right people in this world.
:)
Hope this helped. If you need anything, I respond to my messages pretty frequently.
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Most people dont like me either but I think its because im a jerk XD anyways you can message me anytime :)
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I have a situation almost exactly the same, but it's just that I'm a complete smart-ass. AND that I have share almost no interests with my friends. This Summer, I've only hung out with friends 3 times this Summer. Im pretty freaking picky with friends too. :)
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Christ. You must have really been unlucky with finding your so-called "friends".
If you need to talk to anybody, PM anybody here on the forums. We as a community are always able to help and are very forgiving.
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Most people dont like me either but I think its because im a jerk
As weird as it sounds, if you are a "jerk" of sorts, accepting it is a surprisingly not-bad idea. It means you don't have to pretend, and people who will like you for you will get to know you as you are.
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It looks like you just whine too much. Also dont apolagise, it makes you look insacure. A good rule of thumb is to think that everyone wants you to fail, so keep your expectations low. I wont lie, life's a b*tch.
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It looks like you just whine too much. Also dont apolagise, it makes you look insacure. A good rule of thumb is to think that everyone wants you to fail, so keep your expectations low. I wont lie, life's a b*tch.
Are you by any chance related to Teiko?
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Are you by any chance related to Teiko?
Who's or what's Teiko?
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Are you by any chance related to Teiko?
Who's or what's Teiko?
User #19544 (http://www.thefurryforum.com/forums/index.php?action=profile;u=19544)