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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Caesium Iodide on August 04, 2015, 03:36:20 AM

Title: And so it began.
Post by: Caesium Iodide on August 04, 2015, 03:36:20 AM
Long ago, in a chilly month named October, a blind-to-love deer fox fell into a terrible trap.

During the trap, the deer fox was adorned the title "Lady" and she wore it with great honor.

But,

today, she was finally set free of her trapper, never to see him again, for she knew that if she did, bad things would come to him and his empire.

She currently has no emotions about this release, but has yet shed tears due to the trapper. She was given a title, which she did her best to never abuse, and someone who seemed like he'd be there. She was blinded by emotions that weren't even there, and suffered from heartache all the time. Today was the day that the emperor released his deer fox lady into the world, so she could be free of the waste of time they called a relationship.
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: kalan on August 04, 2015, 03:57:39 AM
*Hugs*

Im here for you moni
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Midnight Madness on August 04, 2015, 04:46:21 AM
Well, you're home again Armonia. The suffering is drawing to a close and life will only look up from here. I assure you that you have our support here on the site, but I am still sorry that something like that had to happen to someone like you. You have my support.
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Caesium Iodide on August 04, 2015, 05:21:34 AM
Thank you gentlemen. I greatly appreciate the support. I had a thought of leaving the forum simply because I was put here after my capture, but I don't see how I could leave such a wonderful community.
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Post by: Grey on August 04, 2015, 09:47:17 AM
Enjoy your freedom. Freedom is nice.
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Post by: MrRazot on August 04, 2015, 10:11:51 AM
And the next chapter begins as the page turns.
Will the story simply advance or will it change course?
Words can create worlds, but our life can only follow one path at a time.
May as well lead in our own journeys.
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: George on August 04, 2015, 10:25:37 AM
It seems like this is for the best, and I can understand why you're so happy about it. For some people, the boundaries commitment gives can feel like a cage instead of a caress, and the fact that you'll hurt someone if you're too careless in your activity can be stressful instead of making you feel loved and cared for.

If someone mistakes their wanting a relationship for love, they can end up mistreating their partner. They also may not understand what the emotional pain they cause when they cross boundaries they didn't think were important.

You no longer have to deal with that, so enjoy your lack of restriction!
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Caesium Iodide on August 04, 2015, 12:34:57 PM

If someone mistakes their wanting a relationship for love, they can end up mistreating their partner. They also may not understand what the emotional pain they cause when they cross boundaries they didn't think were important.


See, he seemed to have stop caring six months in, but I had to five months in because I was dealing with someone who never made time for me and would ignore me. It doesn't bother me that my relationship is over, even though I definitely was more committed, and tried to do everything. I guess caring too much didn't help and now I'm left with a thousand questions that will go unanswered.
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Post by: Trixsie Vixen on August 04, 2015, 01:57:41 PM
I'm sorry it played out this way Moni *hugs*


But it seems that it was never quite right and that wasn't something you could change.


You would be a great loss to TFF hun :3
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Radio on August 04, 2015, 03:31:19 PM
We're all here to support ya. We got each others back around here. I'll eat whomever messes with my fluff family.
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Post by: Halei-Helai on August 04, 2015, 03:35:29 PM
I don't know you as well as the others who posted here seem to. Nevertheless, I am sorry to have read about this. Even if it sounded like there were issues, a relationship ending is never a pleasant or easy thing.
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Post by: Radio on August 04, 2015, 03:37:49 PM
We hope that you can find happiness in other pursuits if they are not to be in love.
Best of wishes to ya
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Caesium Iodide on August 05, 2015, 12:37:01 AM
Thank you everyone. This is kinda hard. I was so attached to having someone to call mine, and well, it didn't work. Haha oh well.
Title: Re: And so it began.
Post by: Caesium Iodide on August 09, 2015, 10:26:51 PM
Happiness is having a hard time pursuing itself. I am doing so much better. A little shaken today, but so much better.