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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: SpanxxCat on June 07, 2015, 11:22:15 PM
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I don't know why I'm posting but I need some kind of comfort and advice... I caught a long time boyfriend messing around with someone else and I have no idea what to do...
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I am sorry to hear that you have experienced this.
I have little in the way of advice regarding relationships, but my guess would be that it is best to reconsider your standing with your "boyfriend".
If you really wanted, you could confront him about it, and see what he has to say on the matter, if you are willing to go through the trouble of doing so.
Was the "messing around" serious, or was it simply an interaction with another person which might be misinterpreted as something serious?
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The messing around was him literally having sex with someone at a party, it was spread all around facebook with pictures and his friends congratulating him... He was supposed to tell them about me but I guess he never did and I don't know which I feel worse about, I don't want any problems but I can't handle being treated like this.
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Break it off with him. You shouldn't have to go through this, and apparently some people have no sense of decency or commitment.
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This may not help right now, but this is definitely a bullet dodged. Someone who would do that is pretty much guaranteed to be a lot of trouble in the future. I don't know what to tell you for the short-term, I hate to imagine how you must feel, but just keep in mind that you're probably better off without him. The fact that he did so in the first place was one thing, denying your existence to get in someone's pants is another.
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I really cared for him and I know breaking it off will cause problems, last time we split he keyed my car and followed me everywhere...
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Call the police.
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Call the local authorities. Do not become another domestic violence statistic. Also, that's vandalism.
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The police chief = his uncle, who hates me dearly. I'm not sure I can do that, and anyway I still couldnt call the police on him..
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File a complaint with higher powers if the police doesn't help you.
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Agreed. You cannot let this go quietly in the future. Look for someone who will help. There's always someone willing to help if you look around.
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I skimmed this article (http://poshbytori.hubpages.com/hub/What-to-Do-If-Police-Wont-Help-You-Harassing-Harassment-Stalking), info in it should be helpful.
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my dad cheated on my mum when she was pregnant with me he is a horrible person i have not talked to him in a year we gave him so meany chances but thees people don't change
i give you my deepest sympathy :(
Post Merge: June 09, 2015, 02:25:43 PM
i don't have much experience with relations as well but if you need any moral support i want you to know im hear
so if you want to talk just message me
Post Merge: June 09, 2015, 02:47:11 PM
and 1 final thing from me if he rely loved you he wouldn't do that so he would probably accept a break up more