The Furry Forums

Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Babydoll Animis on January 30, 2015, 02:11:16 AM

Title: im tired...
Post by: Babydoll Animis on January 30, 2015, 02:11:16 AM
i feel like i should leave... the forums... everything... im just tired... parents making me feel like shit... im starting to think theyre right...  let me go... i wanna go... i wanna just say "f*ck it all" and drop off the map... im worthless... im useless... im tired of crying


i just wanna run off... but i need to finish school... i dont have the money to be on my own and i dont have anyone i could stay with i dont think... dad doesnt consider me his son anymore and mom cries just about every time i try to talk out everything with her... religion ruins it all... i ruin it all
Title: Re: im tired...
Post by: Tim Siguire on January 30, 2015, 04:00:33 AM
Ani... hmm.. please have faith in yourself. Its.not your fault even if it feels like it. I'll always want to talk to you.
Even though they don't understand... its them. They don't want to accept things. But you do right? You accepted this into your life, you made friends here.. you met me.. I'm happy to have met you. Ani.. please don't be sad about this. Please hold on harder and longer. Please be strong. For yourself, for everything you believe in, you can do it Ani. I know you can make it through.
There will always be big struggles and little ones, sometimes it takes more than just yourself to get through the big ones but its worth it because you know you're.not alone and you know there will be other who will want to help you. I want to help you as much as possible. Please stay.
Just remember that it's not you. Its the world.

Wait.. you not worthless, you're not useless. You are worth more than you feel right now, believe me Subby. You're worth a lot to me. You're friends think so too! I like getting up knowing you are.here able to be talked to. I like getting up knowing you'll be on here.. even though its random. I still like it.
I Still think about you too. Know that I'm trying to help.as usual.

Feel free.to use my shoulder, its always there for you. Feel free to grab my hand as well.
Title: Re: im tired...
Post by: Ryan Naismith on January 30, 2015, 08:39:25 PM
Subs, your gonna be fine. The phrase may be a bit trite, but it still holds plenty of weight, of truth. You get away from them eventually, and then you can just forget about them, the bigoted asses. You'll always have me to talk to, subs. Though I may not be the neat with encouraging words, the time from the heart. Because I care about you, subs. I care about how you fel, I don't want you to feel sad! You can't let them get you down. Love them, just to spite them, if anything. Cos with the way they're acting? You'll be able to laugh at them from up in heaven.
Title: Re: im tired...
Post by: nixon/monto on January 30, 2015, 08:50:16 PM
Hi sub. You don't know me but I feel like we would get along great. I've been through that...and worse. My great grandfather died a year after I became a furry almost to the day. And he was the glue in this falling family of mine. When he died the family grew apart. Secrets were revealed and feelings were hurt. I didn't let the pain pierce my soul, I didn't let it fuel me, I don't let it anger me. I made it my reason to live. I wanted to show those people what I could really do. What this million people strong fandom can do. What FANDOMS can do. And if that is to be possible then you...must...stay...strong.  If you need some to talk to about ANYTHING at ANYTIME. Pm me or heck I'll give you my email and then if you need I can give you any of my other social network names. I can not express my love and ma ing to you through text it self. You can hide what you are but never leave...please. you are my friend...and I NEVER leave a friend. :)

Email: [email protected]
Title: Re: im tired...
Post by: Angder on January 30, 2015, 11:53:02 PM
I have not seen you much I admit, but what I have seen is that you have a large number of interesting characters and Ideas, you are well liked, you have a lot of people you should consider friends here...

...And you leaving will be felt by everyone reading this thread, and you will be greatly missed.


If this is what you describe as "useless" then bluntly, you are wrong, you are many things, but you are NOT useless. If your parents give you grief, that is their damn problem, not yours. My advice, continue to develop and learn, you are imaginative, smart, and they are wrong about you.
 All you need to do is to prove it.