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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Timmy Fox on October 07, 2013, 05:54:51 PM
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Ever feel like whatever you say, you say the wrong thing?
Ever feel like you regret having been granted the gift of speech and communication?
Ever feel like you never want to say a single word of any form ever again to any living soul in order to not say something wrong ever again?
Yeah... I kinda have that feeling right now...
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Yes, all the time...
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Having grown up in a family where everyone was in a constant argument about something and there were always hurtful words of some kind being thrown around, not to mention I'm quite socially awkward to begin with, yes. Absolutely yes. I don't know under what circumstances you're posting this but regardless, I've found when that happens the best thing to do is to step back and indeed just say nothing for a little while. Give yourself time to collect your thoughts and not get overwhelmed by any emotions you're feeling. Then go back later to whatever the topic at hand was if possible, apologize if you think you offended anyone, and likely there won't be any lasting damage. If it's a situation where you can't go back and remedy it in some way, the best thing you can do is use it as a learning experience for what not to say in the future. Just try not to dwell on any regrets you have, because that's not going to make you happy or productive.
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Yes, no, and kind of not really. Is there something you want to share? You feeling okay, Tim? :)
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It all depends on my mood or situation. If you ask me you shouldn't worry about what people think of what you say. If they try and give you grief for being yourself, just ignore them because they're obviously jealous of your happiness.
Hope that helps, Timmy :3.
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Thanks for all your thoughts guys.
And for those that asked, I'm fine thanks. Just had a moment there and wanted to get this said.
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Yep, I get those days. I work a people-oriented job so there's lots of opportunities to be a total derp. At the end of the day not a lot of people remember minor interactions with others, though.
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Ever feel like whatever you say, you say the wrong thing?
Ever feel like you regret having been granted the gift of speech and communication?
Ever feel like you never want to say a single word of any form ever again to any living soul in order to not say something wrong ever again?
Yeah... I kinda have that feeling right now...
Well then it's lucky that you have someone that'll listen and love you no matter what ^_^
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Ever feel like whatever you say, you say the wrong thing?
Ever feel like you regret having been granted the gift of speech and communication?
Ever feel like you never want to say a single word of any form ever again to any living soul in order to not say something wrong ever again?
Yeah... I kinda have that feeling right now...
Well then it's lucky that you have someone that'll listen and love you no matter what ^_^
Indeed <3
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I feel this way every day of my life, and that means I'm doing the right thing. At least you have those feelings, instead of being a total butt and not being self cautious. Just tone those thoughts down a bit by realizing that you're worth just as much as everyone else on this planet, and have a great attitude always. ;)