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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: RedJay on July 23, 2012, 02:11:31 PM
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A few days ago i posted a rant about an old friend i had who has really bady fell out with me. A new problem is occuring whitch happend like yesterday. I dont know if this is good enough for a rant and im not trying to spam the page but if you want to remove it thats fine.
The thing is with aaron i have been constanly fighting and fighting with him he just wont stop he is still stalking me everywhere i go, he told everyone i know my secrets, He is fighting with my friends from school 24\7 Its really bothering me i keep trying to ignore it but its starting to make me really mad.. He called me a sad loser saying that i should get a life on ebay because it would be cheaper. Calling my best friend fat and ugly swearing at her all the time. He spams links to inappropriate sites i have blocked him after that but the thing that is geting me really angry is that he is annoying my friends and now spamming there email. Its strange first i was best friends with him now im just enemys with him.
Im also starting to to poronoyed with him i keep thinking he is going to get andrew to start bullying me on youtube.
Is there anything i should do to help my friends or myself even?
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Well, I think you should ask him the big question: why? Unless you already have, in which case, there's not much else you can do other than call him out on it. There's no way he can stop unless you let him have it all. And if you've done that already, the best/only thing you can do is ignore him, and hope he changes. Sorry if that advice sucked, but that's all i can think of. I hope it works out for you! ^_^
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Its ok the advice didnt suck
I did ask him why but then he just said it was my fault we fell out and then he just kept spaming. He keeps makeing me feel bad about leaveing him..
Thanks anyway for taking a intrest and giveing some advice.
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He's insecure. Contact his family and tell them what's happening. He needs to see a councilor before this happens again or before he starts abusing people to a deeper degree.
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A few days ago i posted a rant about an old friend i had who has really bady fell out with me. A new problem is occuring whitch happend like yesterday. I dont know if this is good enough for a rant and im not trying to spam the page but if you want to remove it thats fine.
Don't worry to much. I know how this feel to ask something. for me it's the same. but if there is a problem. Feel free to ask for help.
I'm sure there will be people who help you. and I'm also willing to give you a hand!
quarrel between friends is normal, I even think it's a good thing.
He keeps asking for attention in any way. It prove that he is thinking about it.
and it prove he is angry beacouse your frendschip is over.
therefore I think he is committed to your friendship. (this is what I think)
try to talk to him in a familiar environment.
take your time and listen to each other.
I'm sure it will be over soon!
this is a diffrent advice as above. sorry people!
Do the thing that you think it is the best. there aren't any wrong chooses!
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He seems to be going a bit too far you may want to tell someone about it like your parents or a school councilor. I hope things get better for you D: and just remember no matter how hard it gets all things pass in time. :)
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A few days ago i posted a rant about an old friend i had who has really bady fell out with me. A new problem is occuring whitch happend like yesterday. I dont know if this is good enough for a rant and im not trying to spam the page but if you want to remove it thats fine.
Don't worry to much. I know how this feel to ask something. for me it's the same. but if there is a problem. Feel free to ask for help.
I'm sure there will be people who help you. and I'm also willing to give you a hand!
quarrel between friends is normal, I even think it's a good thing.
He keeps asking for attention in any way. It prove that he is thinking about it.
and it prove he is angry beacouse your frendschip is over.
therefore I think he is committed to your friendship. (this is what I think)
try to talk to him in a familiar environment.
take your time and listen to each other.
I'm sure it will be over soon!
this is a diffrent advice as above. sorry people!
Do the thing that you think it is the best. there aren't any wrong chooses!
Thanks but i think aaron has gotten worse he has badly insulted me and i may never forgive him.... :(
He's insecure. Contact his family and tell them what's happening. He needs to see a councilor before this happens again or before he starts abusing people to a deeper degree.
Im sort of afraid to talk to his family i think he has said lies to them but thanks anyway.
He seems to be going a bit too far you may want to tell someone about it like your parents or a school councilor. I hope things get better for you D: and just remember no matter how hard it gets all things pass in time. :)
Thanks for careing i have talked to my Mother and Father they say i should just stay away from him thanks.
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If all else fails and it gets worse, you can resort to a restraining order. I hate to say it, but if he's gotten THAT bad and is stalking you and destroying your privacy, you can report him for harassment as well.
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If all else fails and it gets worse, you can resort to a restraining order. I hate to say it, but if he's gotten THAT bad and is stalking you and destroying your privacy, you can report him for harassment as well.
Thanks i will see what i can do. Aaron is stalking me i never go outside because of him and he always strangly hangs round my fathers house now. One day i saw him and it was ether his little brother or his friend had a sharp wooden plank. Im starting to think he is now trying to beat me up. Thanks for the advice i will try something.
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I'm glad I could be of some help.
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Sharp wooden plane :S !
yeah I think this is starting to approach restraining order territory pretty quickly :( .
I hope things turn out all right good luck :? .
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I've had someone invade my privacy before. That's such a horrible feeling. Was the end of the friendship sudden or did he say something?
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It was sudden it happend because he lied to me and turned agenst me. Im feeling a lot better now that he is gone thanks for asking.
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No problem, I'm glad it's over.