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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: x on August 23, 2011, 09:36:10 PM
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Okay, I'm carrying this over from the Random Thread. My parents make me turn out my light at nine even though I am eighteen years old. They claim I need the sleep, which is true, but it also leaves me no time for anything.
I get up at about 4:30 in the morning.
I go to school then ride the bus, don't get home until about 4:00.
Then I have to do homework until dinner, which ends at the latest, about 7. Then I have to finish homework. If I'm lucky, I MIGHT have at the most an hour of free time.
Then, from 7-9, I request from my parents that I speak to my boyfriend. I speak to him every night for this long. We have a long distance relationship.
Then my parents make me go to bed whether or not I want to. And I understand their reasons. I need sleep, heck, I'm tired, getting up at 4:30 to catch the bus at 6 makes you tired.
But that leaves me no time for art, no time for writing, and no free time. It SUCKS. What can I do? I have no time!
Furthermore, I feel that since I'm 18, my parents can't force me to go to bed at nine like they do. At the least they could extend it to 10. I've talked with them but they refuse to change it.
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One solution would be to get an apartment thats closer to school so you dont have to wake up as early, it could also cut down on time getting there and time to take for dinner, as you could make ramen and eat it as you do homework and such. Problem is that you need money to do that :c
Since you live with your parents, they get to make the rules im afraid so if they want a 9:00 bedtime, I don't think theres much way to get around it.
All work is not good for you though, as it can really stress you out. I'd suggest on the weekends to do whatever you want to relax and blow off some steam.
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unfortunately i agree with ^ ... make as much of the weekends as you can, and try to make yourself some time at school for some good times. i'm british so i don't really know how american schooling works (assuming you're american).
don't worry. once you're out of school life will ease up a little, especially seeing as you won't have to get up at 4am for a bus.
your parents are right... you do need the sleep cause you're a teenager.
if i may add a counter-spin to this. i have far too much free-time in my life, so much so that i just take it for granted and waste it. then when i genuinely do have to go to work i realise afterward that... "oh... that was my day... ... oh... it's 10pm". cherish your free time just like i don't. it sounds like you're already doing that though.
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do you actually sleep at 9? You probably end up really sleeping at 10...?
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No, I sleep at nine or maybe 9 thirty except on weekends.
And thanks. Weekends are where it's at I guess. Maybe I can finally appreciate them.