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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Zaspher on April 25, 2011, 12:57:04 AM
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Well this afternoon I decided to go to the park to play my guitar because my friend Dakota's Mom was up drinking all last night and I didn't want to disturb her.
I just sat down on a bench and began playing a random tune. It was awfully quiet I was playing for abou ten minutes when suddenly a girl tapped on my shoulder. She had Long curly brown hair and big blue eyes. She kinda scared me right then, she asked if I could play that song again. I guess she seemed to like it. Anyway after that we sat and talked about various things. We then played some frisbee. When it came time for her to leave she waved and asked if I could meet her again tomorrow.
I saw a necklace hanging from her neck when she was about to leave though. I looked at it closely it was the Star of David. It suddenly occured to me that she might be Jewish. I have no problom with Jews but she might have a problom with me because I'm part of a religion that would be a considered a Cult to her. I think I might like this girl too.
Can anybody give me some advice?
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let her bring up your beliefs, and if/when she does, play it like its no big deal.
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Tell her right away. Mention that you saw her necklace and ask her if it has a religious value to her, then explain why you asked and tell her you hope it's nothing to worry about.
Why?
1) the less you know her, the easier it'll be if everything goes to drat.
2) she won't be angry you hid it from her and you'll never end up in a drama.
That's what I would have done.
The way you talk to her about it though is most important of all. For this, follow Macid and don't make it a big deal.
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WOW that was fast thanks you guys are the best *Gives Macid and Puncia a hug*
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Oh.. oh we know. ;) *returns said hug*