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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Vinny Raccoon on April 07, 2011, 01:38:57 AM
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i had enough of people judging me for da things they rumered!! for instinces, jest because i am a big guy, they pick on me cos i got broad sholders! i meen im not a meen guy, im jest misunderstould! and secound, i wish people would quit joking around bout me being a furry! not dat i have a problum with it its jest they joke too much about it!
therd, i wish people would stop thinking that i like certain people jest because there obese! nothing wrong with fat people (im fat myself by the way) jest rather be with someone who likes me for who i am and not for someone im not!
forth, im tired of dealing with punks who thinks there gangster and swears alot jest for da sake of swearing and not putting meaning in wat they are saying!
fifth it take a big man to stand up for themselves, but it takes a bigger man to stand up for outhers!..... has society sunk so low that they forgotten moral values and rather think with there bodys and not with there heads >:( humanity sunk so low, its sad really :(
if anyone can offer advice or have anything to say, please post comments below!
and if i'd offended anyone, then please accept my apologies
thanks
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Hey there Vinny,
First of all the people who insult you for whatever reason (weight, being a furry, etc.) might just be joking around with you. And if they're not well...let's just say they're not nice people. With people like those who aren't very nice you should just try to ignore their immaturity. Why? Giving them a reaction feeds them and makes them stronger. Thus the all-important rule: Don't feed the trolls. And there's nothing wrong with big guys (guilty as charged myself btw). And there ARE people out there who will like you for who you are. Trust me; I know who those people are in my life now. It'll take time but you'll find some people who are like that :).
Second, it's ok to dislike people because they swear a lot or for any reason. However, people will be who they are so if you don't like 'em just ignore 'em I say :).
Third, again, those people out judging don't know squat. Don't listen to 'em; they'll just make you feel bad.
Lastly, society isn't all bad. There ARE good people out there. You WILL meet good people one day that will like you for who you are. I learned that and myself when I joined this affinity and this forum. Unfortunately there are people like the ones whom you mentioned who aren't that nice :P.
And I wasn't offended at all. I don't get offended that easily.
Hope my advice is helpful :3.
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thanks for the advise that made me feel alittle better
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Hey it's no trouble. We all feel like sometimes the world is against us. Just know that there's always hope bud.