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Title: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 18, 2011, 02:39:52 AM

 :o I think that I might be in love with someone! It feels so strange yet so right. What should I do?  :'(

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Drago Strega on March 18, 2011, 02:50:51 AM

Offer to hangout and get some coffee or something that gives you a hour to talk, your treat. It's a start.   :/

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 18, 2011, 02:59:59 AM

Okay... maybe I could do something like that if I had more time... and had more control over my impulsiveness to speak my mind...  :S

Maybe I should start by asking to be their brother on Facebook or something...  :?

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: WingedZephyr on March 18, 2011, 03:02:26 AM

Why would you want to be someone's brother if you like them romantically? Kind of implies friendship rather than relationship.

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 18, 2011, 03:07:22 AM

Sorry. I just don't know what to do! I think that I really like this girl!

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: WingedZephyr on March 18, 2011, 03:17:28 AM

Do this. :P

Quote from: Drago Strega on March 18, 2011, 02:50:51 AM

Offer to hangout and get some coffee or something that gives you a hour to talk, your treat. It's a start.   :/

It would be a lot more effective.

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 18, 2011, 03:41:41 AM

Maybe I could ask to talk to her sometime after school sometime... I can't call her, she moved here after all the phonebook stuff was done.... I'll figure something out. (I could still use help, though...)

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Drago Strega on March 18, 2011, 04:00:48 AM

If she's new to the area, show her around town, by taking her to the places you feel comfortable and safe. Have fun and she'll have fun too. You're a guy, she's quite aware of that so don't let that stop you. If you're nervous go for icecream with her. Something cooling and relaxing.

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 24, 2011, 10:08:45 PM

Things got interesting at school... I now sit right next to the girl I like in math class. Maybe I'll have a better chance to talk to her now...  :)

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 25, 2011, 03:07:26 AM

Dude, be cool about it, take a few deep breaths and calm down. start with a simple "How are you?" Whatever the reply you can go from there exapmle "Good? Yeah me too, so you're new around here right?" or "not so good huh? Why's that?" etc etc. it's easy enough mate, just need to steady yourself and just be genuine :)

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: Cifero Windtail on March 26, 2011, 12:56:35 AM

Okay... I can try that out.
Thank you, man!  :D

Title: Re: I'm scared somewhat
Post by: .: ♥ Kiniia ♥ :. on March 26, 2011, 02:00:00 AM

Good on ya mate, just keep calm and it'll go swimmingly :)