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Title: should I??
Post by: TheBuffaloChicken on January 10, 2011, 08:24:50 AM

I still clean my EX's  house once a week(12hrs.) a day. Am I nuts?? I really don't like her anymore,but i promised I would do it no matter what. Weather we were together or not. All I get is the work, I love to work. But she is now married. He does not care. Myself and her no longer have feelings. I an just the maid.  Is this strange??

Title: Re: should I??
Post by: Alice The Necrofox on January 10, 2011, 08:36:52 AM

Uh... yeaaaah that does seem pretty wierd.

I haven't heard of something like that. I mean if you are still friends i could see you going over and being friendly, but you are doing a service unpaid just cause she is an ex? Nah i think you should stop it.

yeah its a bit wierd

Title: Re: should I??
Post by: Norbert Crescent on January 10, 2011, 09:38:34 AM

◆ Interesting problem indeed.
Are you still friends? I say a promise is a promise, but if you don't get paid and ain't even friends with her, I myself think it's not really worth it...

Title: Re: should I??
Post by: Puncia on January 10, 2011, 06:27:35 PM

Same here, it seems she got the sweet deal here and not you even if you like work. Maybe you could ask if you could talk together about it?

Title: Re: should I??
Post by: Ares the Ram on January 10, 2011, 07:00:10 PM

I understand keeping a promise, and as long as she or her family isnt being rude/mean/a (naughty word), and it doesnt subtract from your time too much, go for it.