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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: RedWolf "lucifer" Guevara on January 06, 2011, 04:52:12 PM

Title: should i stay or should i go
Post by: RedWolf "lucifer" Guevara on January 06, 2011, 04:52:12 PM

ok, iv got a choice,

girl 1: furry, nice, pretty, loves me, etc etc.

problem: lives in california, i could go but at about £80 a visit, (thats about $130)

girl 2: non furry, nice, loves me, my exact match, really shes exactly like me, lives in cardiff (same as me)

problem: im already in a relationship with girl 1


i dont know what to do, so im asking you

Title: Re: should i stay or should i go
Post by: Puncia on January 06, 2011, 04:54:09 PM

How deep in a relationship are you with the first girl? How does she feel about a distant relationship with you?

Title: Re: should i stay or should i go
Post by: Ares the Ram on January 06, 2011, 05:11:47 PM

if you guys can handle a long distance relationship, id stick with the first one.

Title: Re: should i stay or should i go
Post by: WingedZephyr on January 06, 2011, 06:10:35 PM

Depends heavily on how long you've been with the girl, and how involved you are, like Pilose asked.


But just from what you've told us, I'd consider going with #2. Mostly due to the fact that long distance relationships rarely work out... Not that they can't, but it takes a lot of work and trust between you both. If you're willing to put that kind of effort into it, then by all means stay with the one you're with. But if you don't think you're up to it or can do that, might be better for both of you to look elsewhere.

Also, if you're at all seriously considering cheating on girl #1 with girl #2, then I think you've already made your choice to be with #2. In that case, spare girl #1's feelings and break it off.

Title: Re: should i stay or should i go
Post by: Puncia on January 06, 2011, 06:16:19 PM

Whatever you do, don't cheat. Be honest with both of them. They deserve as much.