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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: asterisk on December 08, 2010, 05:41:08 AM
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What are some things you do to help yourself when you feel like nobody loves you? :(
I like to write my thoughts down... listen to music. Sad songs sometimes to force some tears out.
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I do that exact same thing. <3 It works so well.
Sleep helps a lot, like, if you feel depressed the best thing I think you could do is sleep. Of course unless you get nightmares, but usually you feel better in the morning.
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I put on my headphones and turn the music to max. drown out all other noises. Usually Mettalica or Disturbed
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I tend to get that feeling alot.
What I usually do is I take a nap, drink tea, play video games, text a few good friends, draw, write, listen to music, or try to watch something that makes me laugh.
(:
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when i get down i stare at myself in the miror for ages, but usually i just burn and break things
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I eat pleasure foods and watch the fox and the hound
or on rare occassions, possibly [removed] play videogames, that usually breaks my mind and i feel better xD
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Hmmm. Guess it all really depends on the seasons for me.
During Spring/Winter, either listen to some Pink Floyd or write like crazy.
During Summer/Fall, same as those two, plus go camping, either with myself or friends.
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I'm sorry but when it comes to rant advice, I feel you guys shouldn't post possible negative things.
Sleeping is good, if you feel stressed, but don't do it a lot, that isn't good.
Eating food, isn't good.
Burning/breaking not good.
Getting drunk, very bad.
Good things now
Art related, very good way to express yourself in a positive way.
Talking to friends, good (if you have close friends)
Sometimes a good rant will make you feel better.
Always look to the brighter side, that's all you can ever do sometimes
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I go in the woods behind my house and cry.
I go wash my face.
I put my face in a pillow and scream.
I go on this site.
I am so Damn lonely...... :'(
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I know how you feel, mate...
I do some things...
Like for example, I listen to a good song (feel good inc. By Gorillaz is a great choice)
Sometimes I write, but I usually just go one a run through (a park near my house) and do a few push-ups (60-100 is usually enough).
But thats the problem with life, innit? We look for somebody and when we don't find them, we feel run down.
But if you look, you'll find somebody to help, you always find somebody...
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Yeah, I guess your right. :)
Well, this site has been a great help 'cause it's helped me find lots of great people! ;)
I just really need some friends that aren't assholes, like my current friends in real life.
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Check my shout/avvie description/spare sig thing under my avvie.
Says it all.
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I always noticed that, I never brought it up but I really like it. :)
It gives me hope.
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I love free love!
Kinda like a lot of other free stuff you can get, but it's even better!
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"Free love"
And
"Love is free"
Are two very different subjects, mate.
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*Inside joke*
=/
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Eh, oh well, live and let live...
*Offers paw*
I don't talk to you much...
Back on topic! Man I always end up moderating (I STOLE THEIR JOB!) myself...
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*Takes paw*
No, we don't talk! Gonna have to change that =X
(Now to get back to topic.)
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when no one loves me i hide from everyone because they dont want me i dont need them.
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Back when I was in high school I would storm out of my house and go for a walk. I would usually smoke as I walked just thinking about why I was so upset. I'd stop occaisionally and cry a little bit in the most deserted area of my neighbourhood. If I was angry I'd call up a friend of mine and he'd drive down to talk to me. We would talk for hours in the street about all the positive things. We might end up going to a bar to drown our sorrows and share some laughs.
I'd make one of my darkest nights one of the best. Maybe that's all you need...just call up a buddy and talk.
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Sometimes when I feel real crappy I catch myself staring at me in the mirror but it really does more bad than good so I usually drag myself away and take a soothing bath. If you lioe reading then reading in the bath is a great thing to do! Just don't drop your book! ^_^
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Just don't drop your book! ^_^
I did that with a copy of The Requiem once XD I was like "NUUUU!!!!! Thats an eighty dollar book :O!"
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if i feel like that , what i do sometimes , i gonna lissnn dark music like korn ore linkenpark .
somtimes i am gonna lissn Yurima - the river flowns in you . they are sad piano songs ,
but that is not going to help you . is only makes it worst sometime . if you wanna feel better ,
buy some new thinks that you always wanted , talk to the people who are willing to lissin to you , ore
do thinks that takes your mind of of things , it helps . really . ^_^
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I guess its not just me that needs to feel loved to be truly happy..
Sucks that the world seems to revolve around love..
When there's no love to be found, I just try my best to stay positive..
Easier said than done.. Music sometimes helps, but hit the wrong song and it brings me down so much!!
I can't draw at all :(.. Wish I could..
I tend to do things that take all my concentration, like playing keyboard..
A lot of the time tho, I just find myself seeking love in the arms of someone who isn't interested in love, and probably doesn't even know what it means.. Cause when im with someone who treats me like their girlfriend, I feel happy and hopefully.. Tho as soon as I go home, I feel completely unwanted..
Xox
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i uselay lisson to the unforgiven by metallic . read from my bible , read manna or if iam really depressed go on a video game like oblivion or fallout or COD MF2 and let out my rage. those uselay help
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If i have a crappy day i like to exercise to clear my head, go running or cycling..........
Or i grab my motorcycle and just drive around for an hour or so.
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I mainly use my drum kit as a giant stress ball and play harder than i normally do, because the worst thing i could break is my sticks at that point and nothing else like my heads, hoops, cymbals, and hardware. All of which has survived so far.