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Title: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Link4009 on March 31, 2007, 01:43:05 AM
Bruce phoned me pretty much as soon as I got to my grandma's, says that one of my friends Dad has phoned,  and said that I was having Sexual conversations with her, and said he'll bring it up with the police, now I know you all don't know me too much but I have NOT had those types of conversations. But Her mother moderates her convos pretty well, so its unlikely I will be in a large amount of trouble. Still I shouldn't have give my number out... so I expect the chances of being grounded for awhile will be quite high.  :'( The sucky thing is, that these are the few friends I have that actually are my age, and I'm getting branded a pedophile by one of their fathers!

Anywyas I've learned my lesson there, keep friends who are older than me and don't give out my number to anyone who still lives with their parents..  >:|
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: NiryxTheDragon on March 31, 2007, 01:47:31 AM
tips to prevent that

1)only chat on enternet when like that >.>
2)dont give out your phone # unless needed
3)yes make sure they dont live with people that would care
4)delete all logs or anyway of tracking it
5)keep it secret, tell no one
6) sorry for what happened we will miss ya
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Maxis29 on March 31, 2007, 01:48:03 AM
 :'( that tottally sucks
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: AuziTheTentacular on March 31, 2007, 01:49:28 AM
*hugs tightly* Sowwy, Link... Poor thing...  :peek:
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Noekh on March 31, 2007, 01:55:11 AM
Okay First thing's First:

There's nothing wrong with giving out your number to people you become friends with (after a given amount of time) and trusting them enough to not abuse it. Unless you're like me, and stumble into the IRC, giving it to everyone   =3

Second thing: I've had a lot of conversations with you, and in none of them are you ever even *remotely* sexual  grr, so I don't see where her dad is getting off telling you that you are  >:|. Chat logs when viewed in ANY browser can look pretty skewed, especially with multiple participants, and sometimes lines won't...well...line up.  :no:

Final thing: If it comes out that you DO get grounded, even for being involved with someone like this and technically being "guilty by accomplice" as it were: take it with a grain of salt. You know you're the better man, and that somewhere along the line, something got really messed up. I personally know you're a very responsible and mature young man; I do not believe that you would do something like that and sexually harass some girl. Â :twitch:

Oh and, technically the police cannot do anything about it. You're not above the age of 18-19 so that does not make you a legal adult and she a minor. You are of similar age group. I'm sure a police officer would say something like, "You're a bit too young for that, Son, why don't you focus on grades and school?" and walk away with a slap on the wrist, but you cannot be incarcerated so no worries.

You'll be fine; I'll pray for you just in case. Love ya Kiddo, and keep that chin up. Your smile makes my day. Â :-*
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Link4009 on March 31, 2007, 02:03:08 AM

tips to prevent that

1)only chat on enternet when like that >.>
2)dont give out your phone # unless needed
3)yes make sure they dont live with people that would care
4)delete all logs or anyway of tracking it
5)keep it secret, tell no one
6) sorry for what happened we will miss ya


1) Internet*
2) I've been her friend for a year and I gave her my number so she could still talk to me while she was out on holudays
3) I'm gonna have to do that next time...
4) I do that but she didn't so the blame isn't place with me...though its going to be hard as friggen hell to prove I'm not a pervert with no chatlogs
5) I'm very secretive, why else do you think very few people know my name here yet everyone knows your name :P
6) Thanks Lexy
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: NiryxTheDragon on March 31, 2007, 02:07:03 AM
yes but no one knows my last name

Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: ephemral on March 31, 2007, 02:07:26 AM
By that one guy's definition of a pedo, any teen with a crush on a teen would be a pedo.
If he said anything like that publicly sew his nards off for slander.
Seriously, and I mean SERIOUSLY, that kind of thing may seem small, but it can freakin ruin your life.
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Tinkerbelle0032 on March 31, 2007, 02:13:40 AM
Awww, Link, Sorry for what happend, We will all miss you while your gone! *huggles*
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Link4009 on March 31, 2007, 02:56:36 AM

By that one guy's definition of a pedo, any teen with a crush on a teen would be a pedo.
If he said anything like that publicly sew his nards off for slander.
Seriously, and I mean SERIOUSLY, that kind of thing may seem small, but it can freakin ruin your life.


No he's quite convinced I'm 35 since Bruce picked up the phone since I'm at my grandma's

Perish the thought that A kid's guardians could pick up the phone :O

Moronic Adults...>.< never notice the illogical slander they spew forth.
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Kage on March 31, 2007, 03:36:05 AM

No he's quite convinced I'm 35 since Bruce picked up the phone since I'm at my grandma's

Perish the thought that A kid's guardians could pick up the phone :O

Moronic Adults...>.< never notice the illogical slander they spew forth.


I kind of figured it was something like that -_-  The media likes to scare parents into thinking that every person who talks with their kid must be a pedophile.
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: airraiser on March 31, 2007, 04:59:46 AM
*Snuggles* Poor hun, and *Shakes fist* DURN MEDIA! They do so much damnage some times
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Rhakshi on March 31, 2007, 05:34:12 AM
and Lexy seems to know alot about this somehow o.O Jk
well sorry about that Link
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Link4009 on March 31, 2007, 03:44:29 PM

and Lexy seems to know alot about this somehow o.O Jk
well sorry about that Link


Thanks Rha, and for once, I'm not gonna use that to tease Lexy ^^;;
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Suki on March 31, 2007, 05:20:24 PM
sorry to hear that... *huggles*
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Noekh on March 31, 2007, 05:20:59 PM
We'll all be here for you when you get back (if you indeed leave) hunneh  :-*
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: iKero-chu™ on March 31, 2007, 05:27:09 PM
Wow...Thats horrible  :sniffle:  :th_PyongLlora:

Well, I hope things turn out better for you oki link? But wow, that svcks x.x
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: FoxyMcCloud on March 31, 2007, 10:49:34 PM
Ack! I hate how people take the news so seriously. I live on a street where there are only weird creeps that peek through windows (which I might add that it has not happened in 4 months). Everyone on my street is afraid to leave their homes!  o.O I dont know why people do what they do. It could be anything. I hope everything turns out ok for you. We will miss you!
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Link4009 on April 01, 2007, 03:26:36 AM
Yeah its evident I'm not going to be on for a long time.
I'm going to miss you all
Title: Re: Might not be on for awhile
Post by: Rhakshi on April 01, 2007, 03:29:09 AM
no Link don't do it!