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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 06:47:11 PM

Title: oh dear lord im dead.
Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 06:47:11 PM: this is like the end of time for me. im NOT EVEN KIDDING OKAY!?
I recently aqquird the number of a friend (who i had a mini crush on when i ws 12. (im now 13).
he lives in new jersey now and I CALLED HIM.
and we texted and stuff.
and my mom thinks im sexting him cause im OCD about my texts and delete them if they arent certain numbers. okay he sorta-kinda-flirtied with me
and shes threatening to check my messages online. SHES GONNA KNOW IM GAY IM SCREWED!!!!!

I don't know what to do cause there is NO ESCAPE.
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Post by: Ares the Ram on October 20, 2010, 06:49:31 PM: first things first, calm down. Panicing will only cause more problems. second, is it really that big of a deal if she finds out? third, as long as hes not sending you pictures of *himself*, its not illegal, I think.
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 06:55:54 PM: he just did a lil kiss and stuff no pics BUT STILL! shes GONNA PUT ME THROUGH HELL!!!!!!

Post Merge: October 20, 2010, 06:56:34 PM
we came o the agreement that having a long distance "relationship" isnt good BUT SHES GONNA GET THE TEXT LOGS
about yaoicon, and stuff. im screwed..
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Post by: White Wolf Guardian on October 20, 2010, 06:58:38 PM: Well if she does go through them, there's not much you can do about it now. If she does find out about it, then she'll just have to come to terms with it and there's nothing she can do to make you change your preferences.
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 06:59:32 PM: What if she hates me?
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Post by: Ares the Ram on October 20, 2010, 07:02:44 PM: Just tell her that you love her very much and that you just want to be acceppted.
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Post by: White Wolf Guardian on October 20, 2010, 07:03:49 PM: She can't hate her child, she can only hate things about you. Which in that case, she has to deal with it :P
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 07:05:47 PM: Aaaagh, this sucks. I need to hide. HIDE I SAY....I'm gonna call my friend alyssa and ask if I can hide out at her place for today. that gives me a LITTLE time.
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Post by: Ares the Ram on October 20, 2010, 07:07:30 PM: Trust me Kodachi, youll feel alot better once you get it over with.
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 07:10:04 PM: ....I'm calling Alyssa either way, so she can like let me stay at her place at LEAST for the day.

I mean i cant deal with it today.... GAH BUT THANK YOU MACID.
I hope she didnt go through them though.
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Post by: Ares the Ram on October 20, 2010, 07:11:16 PM: Ive got lots of wisdom for the sharing. :)
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 20, 2010, 07:12:22 PM: You so do you so do you so do. *praises*
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Post by: Armalite_ on October 20, 2010, 10:21:19 PM: ...Parents can check messages online? Whoa...I know my mom hasn't been checking mine!!! LOL

The best thing to do is be straight with her. Don't act like your hiding nothing and she'll never suspect anything. I mean, I think it's a bit too late for that now but I'm just saying that it's best to act cool around parents.

By now my parents know me. If they suspect I'm doing something I "sarcastically" tell them the truth and they think I'm joking...its great! xD

(mom yelling at me in my room after I come home)
Mom: MARK! WHAT'CHU DOING UP THERE!?
Me: HIDING MY DRUGS!!! (no lie)
Mom: (with giggle) Okay honey! You want dinner now or later!?

Quote from: White Wolf Guardian on October 20, 2010, 07:03:49 PM
She can't hate her child, she can only hate things about you. Which in that case, she has to deal with it :P

lol I don't know about that, White. Parents can be pretty evil...like with murder and abandonment xD
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Post by: Gabag on October 20, 2010, 11:25:40 PM: So your name is mark spike, (post in Z-day)

But for the problem at hand

if your mother checks the texts online, then be honest, lying only makes it worse in the long run. She won't hate you if your gay (hopefully) if anything else she won't like it, but she'll accept you for you and still love you anyways.
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Post by: White Wolf Guardian on October 20, 2010, 11:56:00 PM: A parent can't be conditional on preferences like this, if that were the case that's no real parent. I'm sure you'll be okay Kodachi!
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Post by: Armalite_ on October 21, 2010, 12:55:16 AM: Quote from: Gabag on October 20, 2010, 11:25:40 PM
So your name is mark spike, (post in Z-day)

Gabag, dammit, we've been dating for how long? You didn't know what my name was? And I posted in Z-Day already like 5 hours ago.

Kodachi: don't worry about this kind of stuff, nothing will happen.
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 23, 2010, 05:59:12 PM: gah, she was just being e vil and tricking me, it turns out. Wonderful. I practically have a heart attack and she thinks its funny >.>
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Post by: White Wolf Guardian on October 23, 2010, 06:00:39 PM: So maybe she was hoping you'd say you were gay o.o?
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Post by: Kodachi Devil on October 23, 2010, 06:04:46 PM: no idea. no. idea.
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Post by: iKero-chu™ on October 26, 2010, 02:35:09 PM: Quote from: Kodachi Devil on October 23, 2010, 05:59:12 PM
gah, she was just being e vil and tricking me, it turns out. Wonderful. I practically have a heart attack and she thinks its funny >.>

Your mother has a great sense of humor.
xD
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Post by: Self-sain on October 27, 2010, 07:56:49 PM: You should still come clean, or this will linger over your head, for at least another 5 years