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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Self-sain on July 05, 2010, 08:20:58 PM
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Ok so I met this girl almost a year ago today, and we became real close friends. We talked almost every day for eight months stright. Then we went to mega con (or metro I get them confused >< ) and right befor the rave she goes and ask me out. I knew she liked me befor this and that was the first reason she started to talk to me. I was stiill a little shocked by this and I thought about it a lot befor she asked (he and my friends talked about doing it befor she did and they can be quite volcol). When she did I told he that I rather not for a couple of reasons she lives pretty far away and I wasn't attacted to her. Let's just say she was a little hurt by this. In the next month to come I thought about her more and more and I ended up asking her out. She was quite happy and we ended up going to her prom togther and I was at her graduation and all that fun stuff. We spent like the next threeish months togther every weekend and almmost all summer (thus far). We started getting into fights and we just seem to go at it a lot, not big ones but there still there. To make it worse we ended uppp telling eachother that we loved one and other. I'm mean I do but it fells more and more like a friend then a lover and I'm want to just be friends but I don't know how to do that. I can't ask any of my physical friends for help because they all would be one sided. One would tell me not to leave her that I'm just crazy and it will all pass by soon the other (who has like a mad crush on me) would tell me to leave her >> so not much help there. I want to just go back to being friends and I don't want to hurt her but I'm would just be making it worse for both of us the longer this goes on..... soo any advice would be very nice
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All couples fight sometimes, at one point or another. To some degree it's even healthy. Just try to communicate and figure out what's causing the fighting and what you can do to try to solve the problem(s).
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Yea! Communication is key!
I talk to my sweet ninja fox about everything, even things that are hard to, and sometimes I cry about it, and sometimes it makes us angry, but its helped us big time in the long run. =D
She's your girlfriend. If you can't confide in her, who can you?
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Zeph the problem is i just want to go back to being friends, but thanks that helps sometimes.
So ShadoWolf you think i should just try to talk to her about how i fell... that's COMPLETLY CRAZY..... but maybe just crazy enough :P thanks ill try that
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NP dude. :)
Good luck!
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Thanks I think ill need it