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Title: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: CommanderTuna on June 03, 2010, 05:56:03 AM
I have asked myself this question MANY times. What makes you want to be a furry? Is furry some kind of, group? Because so far what i've heard is that a furry is either a homosexual man or girl. Who watches porn all day and writes on his/her blog/steam/community description/facebook/ etc. saying "I am a wolf and I want to howl in the night" (Or something similar) and saying what sex he/she is and who their into (USUALLY it says gay furries) And that you RP in text, which is completely foreign to me...  I dont get, what makes you want to be a furry. Whether it be running around in a furry suit, or rather RPing in text, or watching furry porno all day. I dont, understand why in hell. Would you want to do that... I tried talking to my friend Srgntcuddels on why he wants to be a furry or support them, but no dice. Who kindly mentioned this site.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Srgntcuddles on June 03, 2010, 06:00:10 AM
I told you not to mention me...*Facepaw*
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: CommanderTuna on June 03, 2010, 06:38:42 AM
Nooooooo you must be mentioned because you introduced me to this... lovely site! It has furry emoticons, kinda obsessive but ok!
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: WingedZephyr on June 03, 2010, 06:44:23 AM
Almost none of those things you mentioned are directly related to being a furry.

Being a furry means you're a fan of anthropomorphic animals (animals with human traits). The reason for that varies from person to person. It could be aesthetically pleasing to the eye, it could be that someone really loved a certain animal in a movie when they were young, it could be that someone thinks animals are just generally more fun than humans.

Now obviously, just with anything else in the world, some people take it to more extremes than others do. But you can't base your opinions on those kind of people either. We're just normal people who like to socialize and get together with other people who share our interest. That's all.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Ho'ne Diheart on June 03, 2010, 08:37:29 AM
Almost none of those things you mentioned are directly related to being a furry.

Being a furry means you're a fan of anthropomorphic animals (animals with human traits). The reason for that varies from person to person. It could be aesthetically pleasing to the eye, it could be that someone really loved a certain animal in a movie when they were young, it could be that someone thinks animals are just generally more fun than humans.

Now obviously, just with anything else in the world, some people take it to more extremes than others do. But you can't base your opinions on those kind of people either. We're just normal people who like to socialize and get together with other people who share our interest. That's all.
I agree with Zephyr. Ever since I became a fur, I been meeting furries, living near me, all the time, and they aren't perverted as they say
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: CommanderTuna on June 03, 2010, 12:47:56 PM
SO basically you are telling me this is a giant site full of people that want to be a fake animal? And/or loving on a fake animal-human-thing-a-majig?
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: WingedZephyr on June 03, 2010, 02:26:59 PM
Not loving on. Just loving, as in, we think they're cool. And it's pretty much all about imagination, not actually seriously trying to be animals. It's just for fun.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: DarkHorse_Steele on June 03, 2010, 02:41:40 PM
Ok, I'm not gay/homosexual/whatever...  I've always liked dressing up in costume.  I can never wait until Halloween.  I do have a girlfriend I've been dating for over a year.  I've known her for about 10 years. (met in college)  I love to play RPG's, and wearing a fursuit is more like a LARP (live action role playing) for me than anything. As soon as my girlfriend sees my finished fursuit, I'm going to have to make her one also.  :P

Comander Tuna: If you you're just here to spread hate, please leave quietly...  otherwise keep hateful comments to your self please. >:(
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Bronze on June 03, 2010, 03:11:22 PM
I'm going to have to agree with almost every comment here.  What you have heard so far is mostly going to be false.  The people who wish to say that they are part of the fandom, are not all homosexual out of necessity.  Take me for example:  I'm straight as a flagpole in Alabama, but I consider myself a furry.  To answer your initial question though, what makes me WANT to me a furry?  Well, it's an area of personal interest for me in a  professional sense.  I'm not delusional.  I don't think I'm anything other than human.  I think that it would be sort of neat if Anthros existed, but... Well I guess that's it.  
I I dont, understand why in hell. Would you want to do that...
It is my opinion, that a very select few people do as you mentioned, but that's not specifically what makes one a furry.  So really, you don't need to understand why certain people would want to do that.  Just know that there is more to everything that what the surface reveals.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: ___ on June 03, 2010, 04:08:48 PM
Lets see...
I'm straight, and I don't wanna love on wolves.
That's one of the most insulting things anyone could do to my favorite animal! :(

Its called the furry fandom. Its not an organization, just people who are interested in anthro animals.
Just like non-furs, not all furs watch porn, and not all of them are gay.
That's not what furrys are about. Its about RPing, writing stories, and drawing your fursona (Anthro Character) and just having a good time with people who share your interests. Fursuiting is just like cosplaying for anime fans, its about their favorite character, and its all for the fun of it.

Now, I'm not gonna sit here and lie to you saying that not ALL furs are clean and not watch porn, or do things to that extent, but so do non furs, and they don't gent nearly as much lip for doing it. If all stereotypes were true, then every middle aged white guy is a child molester, and I'd be as far away from them as possible. XD

The people who really want to be/are their animals are called otherkin.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Righteousbro on June 04, 2010, 11:15:25 PM
This is BS man....
Well like everyone said, we're not all gay and not all perverted. The people who call themselves 'furries' but are perveted we call 'furverts' and we feel ashamed of their existence. We're just normal, some of us RP and quite a few of us are in some way homosexual/bisexual but that doesn't mean you can generalize and say that all furs are erotic homosexuals who like to RP. That's just what a bunch of hateful idiots say, and they have no reason behind saying those other than their malicious want to put someone down and feel superior to. This crap isn't true and those people who act like that aren't furries. 
We are just people who think anthropomorphic stuff is awesome and we are generally an accepting and friendly community.
And as said those people who take it further are Therian/Otherkin and even they are misunderstood and generalized by a few extremists.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: ___ on June 04, 2010, 11:30:12 PM
This is BS man....
Well like everyone said, we're not all gay and not all perverted. The people who call themselves 'furries' but are perveted we call 'furverts' and we feel ashamed of their existence. We're just normal, some of us RP and quite a few of us are in some way homosexual/bisexual but that doesn't mean you can generalize and say that all furs are erotic homosexuals who like to RP. That's just what a bunch of hateful idiots say, and they have no reason behind saying those other than their malicious want to put someone down and feel superior to. This crap isn't true and those people who act like that aren't furries. 
We are just people who think anthropomorphic stuff is awesome and we are generally an accepting and friendly community.
And as said those people who take it further are Therian/Otherkin and even they are misunderstood and generalized by a few extremists.

Dang! Even that's a bit harsh. "We're ashamed of their existance?"
I'm not ashamed of every single fur that watches porn, but its gone WAY too far when they put all their buisness out there and put up pics of them doing... Things with each other. Its private buisness what they do, so they should keep it behind closed doors, and  if other furs wanna see it, then they should keep it to e-mail and private IM.

Just because furverts are oversexed dosn't mean that they're not furries. Just means that they're oversexed is all. XP
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Righteousbro on June 04, 2010, 11:35:18 PM
Oops, didn't mean to be harsh  :$
Just trying to say we're not proud of them going oversexed or anything, I only mean like those who act like perverts all over while at the same time called themselves furries. I agree that seemed harsh and all sorry. I know they are kinda furry but I mean they're not what a furry is in general and that you don't have to act like that to be furry. Should've read what I typed.......... Sorry again......
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Niala Ornitier on June 05, 2010, 01:51:26 AM
in relevance to what Zephyr said, i became a furry, not because i wanted to be an animal, but because i love that animal, white tigers are my ultimate favourite animal, and if my personality were to be converted into an animal/physical form it'd be said animal. That's what i assume others do as well, not all, i mean i know some who'd preffer to be that animal, but what does it matter really. Furry is a furry regardless of why or how, some might even be a furry because they like the art or want to have an animal avitar on the web. And with the sexual things, i honestly have to say that's natural, 'normal' humans (Non-furs) have the same sort of aspect really.. same sort of things, they have pornographic images of normal people nude, the only thing really different to that is that well,  furries have anthro characters drawn into it; that's the only real difference i see anyway. Being a furry is definitely not just the sexual aspect of it.... it's many things and it's definitely not all people wanting o be an animal, like me. I am one because i feel my personality suits the animal, and it gives me an excuse to purr :3
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Ninjalion on June 05, 2010, 02:02:45 AM
I don't even RP, I just be myself.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Seko on June 12, 2010, 11:14:08 AM
i cant remember why i became a furry but i dont regret anything because once you delve past the BS that is stereotyping you meet a fun,talkative group of individuals who just want to live their lives and embrace furry culture/art. One of the things that really irritates me is because most of these stereotypes are made by mud-chuckers who have a massive intolerance towards furries for whatever reason be it that they find anthro art akward to look at,flaming furverts but going after us instead, or because the stereotype gives them the idea that we as a group of people are meant to, or expected to be slagged off on a regular basis.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Kyriin on June 14, 2010, 01:15:44 PM
*ears down* shame. lol. im bi and watch furry porn.
but my fursona is gay to represent my gay side :D
um i have issues :)

im kinda trying to change the furvert bit though, :/
lmao

id rather be a furry than a furvert. its more.. idk, better i guess. more fun keeping it legit.
lol i dunno. im new to all this x3

:$
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: ___ on June 14, 2010, 02:42:52 PM
*ears down* shame. lol. im bi and watch furry porn.
but my fursona is gay to represent my gay side :D
um i have issues :)

im kinda trying to change the furvert bit though, :/
lmao

id rather be a furry than a furvert. its more.. idk, better i guess. more fun keeping it legit.
lol i dunno. im new to all this x3

:$

I don't have a problem with the furvert thing as long as you don't try to yiff anything that moves and harass people for cyber. As long as you keep that under wraps, then its ok by me. And as for the bi thing... Well, you can't help being that way, so... Whatever.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Kyriin on June 14, 2010, 03:01:57 PM
yeah im cool about being bi.
lol im just a weird person - damn proud of that too.
but yeh i creep myself out sometmes haha including the furvert stuff.
i have partial lack in self confidence
>_>
<_<
im scaring myself.
:S

oh and yeah i dont try to yiff anything and everything haha (um.. anymore *shifty eyes*), and im not into the whole cyber thing.

:]

wakt. that shifty eyes thing came out wrong.
D:
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Seko on June 14, 2010, 03:04:28 PM
yeah im cool about being bi.
lol im just a weird person - damn proud of that too.
but yeh i creep myself out sometmes haha including the furvert stuff.
i have partial lack in self confidence
>_>
<_<
im scaring myself.
:S

to the self confidence thing i know how u feel, i get major anxiety in social scenarios  :'(
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Leogon7 Coleo on June 14, 2010, 03:39:34 PM
I cant hate anyone (even furverts) because being a furry doesn't revolve around the sexual aspects.
I define a furry as somone who likes anthropods enough to make one and enliken themselves to it, if that gives them a reason to act more like a furry in real life then good furr them, theyre happy, if they choose to take it to the bedroom then they shouldn't take it out of the bedroom, they should just keep it in adult only forums, im sure there r some.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Seko on June 14, 2010, 03:58:47 PM
I cant hate anyone (even furverts) because being a furry doesn't revolve around the sexual aspects.
I define a furry as somone who likes anthropods enough to make one and enliken themselves to it, if that gives them a reason to act more like a furry in real life then good furr them, theyre happy, if they choose to take it to the bedroom then they shouldn't take it out of the bedroom, they should just keep it in adult only forums, im sure there r some.

well said, and i agree
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Self-sain on June 14, 2010, 08:37:53 PM
Odd topic I find on my return to my lovely community; so the initial question is what makes some one a furry (or want to be) but to answer a question you would have to ask each individual fur, furry fan, or what ever you wish to call "them". What makes some one something is each diffrent and is affected by there rearing (look it up if you do not understand it), there tolerance of things, fetishes (doesn't have to be sexual), and stuff like that. Some furs might be similar but the little stuff is always the foundation.

The reason for most non furs to think its all gays and stuff may be because it started as mainly gays, gay is nothing short of taboo in the early days so another taboo is nothing to them but a straight person it may be.

As with the furvert stuff, we all enjoy certain things. Some people enjoy other things that some may not and may enjoy it in the more sexual ways. I think the only Miss understanding thing some non fur rs may have is people who enjoy other animals (if you caught what I was saying >.>) are most defiantly not fur rs (they may be but not for that reason). People who enjoy yiff, or yiffing, most of the time will not enjoy, or condone enjoying an actual animal.

And the reason I put "those" in quotations if you where wandering is because you speak as if we are some foreign alien that is nothing short of a blight to society
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Ares the Ram on June 15, 2010, 08:00:44 AM
to answer your question why I want to be a furry, I see less racism in furrydom. also cat fur feels really good.  o.O
and to answer why would people do things like look at pron all day and such, the way I see it, I may not understand why people do things, but I accept their right to be able to do it and move on. this train of thought has caused me to go slightly insane, but nothing serious.  ;)
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: Blackout on June 16, 2010, 09:23:01 PM
Furris is a pretty cool guy. He wars fursits and doesn't afraid of anything.
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: SeventhStrain on January 28, 2011, 12:34:35 AM
It's just... chill. Similar people, similar beliefs. 
Title: Re: Dear, fellow... furry members?
Post by: WingedZephyr on January 28, 2011, 12:42:41 AM
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