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Title: Friends are wierd
Post by: Alice The Necrofox on March 29, 2010, 05:29:17 AM
Uh... okay, my friends in real life are not being fun people to be with. They don't enjoy "fun" anymore. I still am quirky, excitable, a little on the hyper side, and they all want to be jerkwads and anti social *****. I mean, I have known these guys for quite a while, I am good friends with them, they just haven't let go of their middle school humor and adolescence.
I don't know. I talked to BuddyWolf over Xbox live the other day, and we had a load of fun. But some of my friends are jerks and I kinda can't wait until they go away (no one on the forum, just my local friends). I think it is an unstable cocktail of teenage hormones, peer pressure, and the fact that I have friends that I have more fun with elsewhere.

Just... spilling. It always feels better when I spill to people.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Philly Tanuki on March 29, 2010, 01:14:13 PM
There is always at least one friend that I have known for years that I don't like.  Usually it's because they are immature.  Last year I had a friend like that who graduated so I was thinking that I was rid of him at last, but as soon as he left one of my other friends that I have known forever just stood right up to take his place.  It's pretty frustrating, that's why I like to hang out with other, more fun friends.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Armalite_ on March 29, 2010, 10:45:00 PM
I know what you mean. It seems that there's always atleast one person who's a total downer and sometimes can be just unpleasnt to be with. But now that we're old enough to drive, it's as easy as DITCHING them. Hehehehehehe. Yeah, it's mean I know. In the end, they frustrate me to the point where I can't take it.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: ___ on March 29, 2010, 10:56:39 PM
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!
And its even worse when your other friends feel the exact same way about them, and you make plans to ditch them together. (Don't do that) XD
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Buddywolf on March 29, 2010, 11:10:16 PM
It was a blast talkin to you!
So heres what I do when my friends turn into jerks. I slap em cross the face and say stop bein a jerk.  Lol jk. I leave em alone and make new ones. Its not hard for me to get friends but it is hard to get good ones that I could follow to the end. Dunno how easy it is for you so I dunno if it would help to get new friends every once in a while.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Armalite_ on March 29, 2010, 11:42:55 PM
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!
And its even worse when your other friends feel the exact same way about them, and you make plans to ditch them together. (Don't do that) XD

Straight up.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Alice The Necrofox on March 30, 2010, 04:42:00 AM
 :'( sniff.
thanks guys... you guys are the best.  :)
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: ___ on March 30, 2010, 09:48:24 PM
Awww! (Huggles Shiro Chan)
Just don't ditch me, k? :P
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Armalite_ on March 30, 2010, 11:13:03 PM
:'( sniff.
thanks guys... you guys are the best.  :)

hehehe Thanks. I try. :)
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Buddywolf on March 30, 2010, 11:54:58 PM
me? no, you are teh best shiro!
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Rex on April 02, 2010, 06:32:18 AM
*hugs shiro, i'm having some of the same friend problems.... sometimes its better, but all they talk about is sex and drugs, it just gets to me after a while, if im in your neck of the woods anytime soon, we should hang out, and i will support u if you wanna become a DJ  :D, it does sound like a fun time, i would be happy to send you one of my turntables. Bleh, getting off topic, love ya shiro, if all else fails you have a friend here :)
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Alice The Necrofox on April 02, 2010, 03:10:06 PM
@Shadow: Why would I? Iz furry till end, and you guys are too good to lose as friends.

@Buddy: thanks buddy *hugs*

@Grunge: *bear hugs*
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Dr. Strange on April 08, 2010, 02:28:06 AM
~hugs tightly and cleans Shiro's face~ you know we're always here for you. An', trust me, people suck, plain an' simple.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Buddywolf on April 08, 2010, 03:05:51 AM
anytime shiro. hope to play you again some day.
*hugs*
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Righteousbro on April 08, 2010, 09:53:03 PM
I know someone like that, and all of my other friends hate him to. Earlier today one of my friends felt like killing him and she just started chasing him down. Then he escaped and she gave up. But still, I hate these people, I plan to get away from him after graduation hopefully (if he even graduates, I know I am as an A - B student, but hes mostly failures, he already knows hes probably going to have summer school or something). In fact hes just making life miserable for everyone. My one friend, the one who tried to kill him, is having serious problems and hes going around making fun of her for listening to David Archuletta music, talking about how he got injured and just making her feel horrible. Then he's always an immature jerk to everyone, the best he has is say "Your soooo retarded!" and then running away. Sorry if I'm ranting in your rant but today was a day I was seriously angry about it and happened to see this. Good to know that a lot of other furs feel this way, then again, its bad to.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Packedsnack on April 14, 2010, 11:12:17 AM
This probably isn't healthy, but I simply totally disowned absolutely everyone I knew in intermediate.

Two years on, I'm still cleaning things up on Facebook by viciously "not knowing who they are" but it's a good way to blow off steam and to get the point across that I HAVE REAL FREINDS GET OUT OF MY FACE... Ok, this IS a rant forum but that is quite awful...


I'm not sure what to say when the loser that used to think of me as a best freind I never knew and/or ever saw in my life calls me after two years of peace, but I've narrowed it down to two possibilities:

No, sorry, I think you may have the wrong number

or

I'm sorry, but I have a plethora of close, intelligent freinds and am deep in an involved relationship with a highly attractive girl so you can just [removed] so I'm afraid we've grown too far apart to get in contact.
Title: Re: Friends are wierd
Post by: Lone-Wolf on April 15, 2010, 12:13:08 AM
It sucks you're havin friend troubles, but you've always got TFF  :D I get on well enough with my friends though, but my school just generally has well balanced people in my year group  :P