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Title: need some help
Post by: randombacon on March 16, 2010, 11:05:29 AM
Ok 1 this girl ia picking on her name is rachel she makes fun of me my gf and my friends I'm ready to beat her what do you think I should do

2.  My parents don't know I'm a furry how should I tell them I'm scared of what thy will think
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Jad'Thor on March 16, 2010, 11:56:15 AM
really, just tell them to get over themselves. and anyway weird makey fun people ussually get bored anyway if you have one good comeback to anything they say with people around >:3
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Count of Cutesy on March 16, 2010, 01:32:56 PM
Off Topic: I remember seeing your avatar on Flash Flash Revolution. They used it as an example of people that deserve to die. But the people at FFR are mostly just anti-environmentalists who hate furries just for liking animals. ...Or at least that's the vibe I got from them.

1: What ever you do, don't beat her up. Violence solves nothing.

2: Probably not a good idea. My parents harass me all the time after telling them I am a furry.
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: vancouversarah on March 16, 2010, 06:38:07 PM
1. Don't beat people up because of things they say to you. Violence is a crutch, and really should be beneath you at this point in your life.

2. Do your parents even know what a furry is? Telling them that you're a furry when they have no idea what that means is probably going to be upsetting for them. You're their kid, and understandably, they're a bit protective of you! I'm not saying don't be open about your personality and the things you are passionate about, just make sure they're getting the whole story.
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Buddywolf on March 16, 2010, 10:15:42 PM
1) I dunno. Id take the violent course of action if she through a punch. Other wise, I would ether ignore or make fun of her back.

2) Telling you parents might start off bad but will be accepted after a while.
Who knows, maybe your parents are furries too!
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Kodakk on March 16, 2010, 10:52:09 PM


2. Do your parents even know what a furry is? Telling them that you're a furry when they have no idea what that means is probably going to be upsetting for them. You're their kid, and understandably, they're a bit protective of you! I'm not saying don't be open about your personality and the things you are passionate about, just make sure they're getting the whole story.

cant agree more. you have to be very carefull telling people close to you, make sure they know what a furry really is. unfortunately, not too many people know what a furry is, they normaly only hear of the extremes. for this reason, i want mtv's true life to do a segment on furries. i am trying to find a way to tell them...
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Self-sain on March 17, 2010, 03:37:38 AM
1: you have to deal with those kind of people your whole life might as well start now just suck it up sorry but that's all you can do if its any help most people that do that are pathetic shallow people who grow up to die a pathetic worthless life

2. If they ask you don't deny it but I see no point in telling them
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: Howlinger on March 24, 2010, 09:25:37 AM
I can't tell you how many times as a fur that i've seen this question come up. (How do I explain, or tell people I'm a fur?) Sadly i've seen it way to many times to count on different boards. My aswear to this question is simply say nothing unless you can handle judgment of many dagree's. Which may vary from person to person, but then again... if your of the age to do and think freely, you really shouldent care, or should ever have the need to explain your personal life to anyone. It's not for them to know, and if by the chance you do explain, or tell them what it is your into. Surly thay them selves have no room to speak. Everyone has a personal life that he or she doesnt want anyone to know about, right?
Title: Re: need some help
Post by: ___ on March 24, 2010, 04:01:40 PM
Ok. From experience...

1) No violence. It gets you in more trouble then the other person. Try telling someone in charge, or make up some comebacks. Or ignore them. Its kinda hard to do that though sometimes...

2) I don't see why you have to tell them, especially if you live with them. If you DO want to tell them, think

a) are they accepting (Maybe like do they accept homosexuality. If they're open-minded, then give it a shot.
b) Don't come out of the blue with it, it makes it look like you did something wrong. There's a thread on how to start the conversation. :)