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Title: Falling Apart at the Seams
Post by: x on February 28, 2010, 12:43:21 AM

I don't want to go into a lot of detail, as this is kind of personal, but I've been having romance problems lately- let's just say my heart is hurting pretty bad. I know there has to be someone here who's had man drama. Do you have any advice for patching relationships based on what you've been through?

Title: Re: Falling Apart at the Seams
Post by: WingedZephyr on February 28, 2010, 01:44:39 AM

Patching? Or getting over?

Title: Re: Falling Apart at the Seams
Post by: x on February 28, 2010, 01:47:44 AM

Patching, yes, I doubt I could leave him...

Title: Re: Falling Apart at the Seams
Post by: WingedZephyr on February 28, 2010, 03:06:25 AM

If the relationship is bad for you, you need to get out of it. Don't be afraid to leave someone if you need to; it will probably leave you both happier in the end.

But if the problem is fixable, the best suggestion I can give you without knowing any details is to make sure you talk it over. Tell each other how you feel. You both need to be dedicated to making the relationship work though. Chasing after someone who is opposed to being in the relationship is just going to be a waste of time and cause you more pain.