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Furry Chat => Rants and Advice => Topic started by: Self-sain on February 15, 2010, 03:11:41 AM
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Ok so I'm not sure how to do this but yea I'll try...
So I was going to the fair with my "friends" and then they all bailed like one told me that they had better stuff to do, the other like they always do says they can't go but they want to but they never have a reason they can't go, and it hurts me. Like sometimes the one will call me for no reason and they be all like hey and well talk and then they'll be all I got to go I'm about to do this or that with some one and ill call you back in an hour and its probly me but that hurts becase they never do and ill tell them next time we talk that I don't like when they say they'll do it and then blow me off and then they are all like w/e and then in that same consversation they'll do it all over agin. Some other stuff is like my friend is like o this person sad becase of this reason and ill be like o and there all like what you didn't know what kind of friend are you, and I'm just like well every time I talk to some one they ignor me so how am is upose to know...
That's just some stuff I don't know what I want out of this post but idk :(
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Real-life does happen. In some occasions, you may find that you may not be able to talk to friends weeks at a time (I've had that and it's not exactly fun). Just check to see how consistent these activities happen.
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Yea some times I'm not abel to talk to them other times they just ignore me and then talk crap to me about not careing
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ugh i hate when friends....and when i get like that. with the people i know its ussually just a temporary thing if there upset or annoyed or something.
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ummmmm, how bout this, find your real friends, find the ones that wont make you feel like crap, or hurt you. If you don't think that these "friends" you have now are being good friends, you need to tell them that they are hurting you. If they refuse to change find better friends.....
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Don't worry, your not alone, the same happened and still happens to me with certain groups of friends, eventually you'll find some that prove their worth by showing a return of interest I guess.
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Sometimes people have priorities.
Sorry to say this, but it seems like your not on their top 20.
You should just them contact you, and if they don't, then forget them.