This situation is kinda... strange.
So I told my mother I got a girlfriend. At first she didn't care, (She didn't even look up from her phone when I said it.) Ten minutes later she asked a few questions the last one being, what's her ethnicity. And I said Chinese and Spanish. And literally translated this is what she said, "Oh, I thought you were going to have a sweet 'Japanese' girlfriend." And of course that ticked me off. What the heck is that supposed to mean, are you saying my girlfriend isn't sweet and saying that Japanese woman are somehow automatically better than Hispanic/ Chinese girlfriends? Anyhow putting that aside, two weeks later. My mother says, there's this really sweet Japanese girlfriend about your age in the next town over and that I should go see her. And my reaction is no. And then she insists again next week. I said no.
Then about a week later she comes visit my store on the same day I work, 'coincidentally.' Sure I work four days a week in eight hour shifts. But really? On the least busy day at night? Hmm... Seems fishy. And she asks me for my number and I thought sure have my phone number. And I would of said no if it didn't seem rude. Imagine my mother is putting me up to be this good guy, and then that good guy immediately says no you can't have my phone number. And one of her friends were with her too. I just couldn't say no, it felt kinda wrong. And so now she's asking me out to a movie Friday. I said sure. I honestly don't like her anyhow. If there was a polite way to say no, I would of said it. I just hope this goes nowhere. And I'm guessing just us...
If anyone has any recommendations on what to do, I would take it. (And for all goodness sakes, I love my girlfriend, I only need her in my life. And no one else. The faster I boot her out of my life the better.)
(I mean my mother said she did have a BF, but honestly. She lies a lot so her word means crap.)