It's respectable that you're seeking support for this issue. Unfortunately, due to recent problems with people flaming humans every time misanthropy comes up in conversation and consequently making our non-furry forum users feel unwelcome here, I'm afraid I'm going to have to close this thread as a preventative measure.
I encourage people to still show support for ShadoWolf, but if you'd like to discuss this matter with her, please do so through PMs.